Why do some people have more self-esteem than anyone else even though they have no ability?

The most important thing people can't be trampled on is their own self-esteem.

We have met some people with strong self-esteem more or less in our life, but the scary thing is that some people have no ability, but their self-esteem is stronger than anyone else. His so-called self-esteem is actually just a glass heart.

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01 When you need help from others, please lower your posture

After graduation, many college students are unable to find a job for a long time. They would rather be unemployed and stay at home, rather than let others help introduce a job.

The family managed to find a job by trusting the relationship, but because they were disliked and entered the company through the back door, they resigned in a rage.

Sometimes, we have to face up to the gap between people, the reason for such a gap,

There are reasons for this, and there is no need to blame the unfairness of society.

It is impossible for a person to never need the help of others. When encountering difficulties, you might as well bend over, lower your posture, and keep a low profile. Maybe you will find that there are more opportunities in front of you.

Young businessman asking for help, office

02 Self-esteem increases with value

Self-esteem generally comes from two aspects: one is the desire for achievement, superiority, and self-confidence; the other is the desire for fame, dominance, and admiration.

Some people will fight for their self-esteem to win the respect of others, while some sensitive and vulnerable people always use their self-esteem to protect themselves and ask others to save face in everything, and suffer for their face to the death.

Especially for those who have nothing but desire to succeed, if they overemphasize self-esteem, they will make self-esteem a stumbling block to their own success. When you are worthless, your self-esteem is also worthless.

03 If you want to get what you want, you must properly let go of your self-esteem

I don’t know if you have noticed that in the workplace, people who have just entered the workplace always have stronger self-esteem than those old people in the workplace.

Although they may appear respectful on the surface, they are revealing when they do things.

When he first entered the company, his true thoughts and professional mentality can best be seen when he arranges a new person to do a job with little technical content.

People who know how to let go of their self-esteem will do things with purpose, complete the work well, and there will always be things to improve themselves in the process of completion.

People who don't know how to let go of their self-esteem, but they don't want to do it. They think it's a waste of their talents to do such simple work. Not getting any growth.