What moment made you feel like you've grown up?

I don't want I don't want to grow up

When I grow up, there will be no fairy tales in the world

I don't want I don't want to grow up

I'd rather be stupid and stupid forever

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Remember this song? When I was young, I just felt the rhythm was lively and I liked to hum along. Later, as we grew older, we became more and more aware that everyone "doesn't want to grow up"...

What moment made you feel like you've grown up?

However, time is like flowing water, and we can't stop it. We still grow up quietly... The process of growing up is always full of ups and downs. When I recall it, I have mixed tastes in my heart, but it is irreversible. Growth is something that each of us must experience. a stage of. So, is there a moment when you feel like you have grown up?

1. The first time we realize that we have grown up is that we truly realize that we are not the center of the world, and that no one is obliged to accompany you all the time.

Some time ago, Xiao A fell ill at school. She was always squeamish, but this time is different. She didn't tell her parents or seek comfort from her friends. She could go to the doctor by herself, and go to the infirmary to get medicine and infusion by herself. Even if it was so uncomfortable, she could still go to class and go to work. Without a lot of complaining and acting like a spoiled child, she tried her best to learn to experience these things by herself. In her own words: "Nothing is impossible, don't rely too much on others, no one will be with you all the time."

What moment made you feel like you've grown up?

After listening to her words, I only feel distressed. It turns out that each of us has compromised with time, and we "had to" grow up.

When I was a child, when I didn’t want to go to kindergarten, I would hug my parents’ thighs, cry with snot and tears, and try my best to stay at home and by their side; when I was a child, when I had a conflict with my friends, I could not hesitate to do so. Say "I don't want to play with you anymore", because I know, I will be reconciled in a while; when I was a child, if I was sick, my parents would always be by my side, worrying about you, nervous about you, and accompanying you...

Growing up, we had to leave home, and it was always sad when school started, it wasn't that I didn't want to go to school, it was just that I didn't want to leave home. Gradually, we also lost our willful qualifications, because we were afraid that our parents would worry, because we needed to maintain a good relationship with our friends, because we understood that some roads are destined to be walked alone. In this way, we learned to be independent, learned to enjoy loneliness, and learned to move forward even if we are tired...

2. The second time we grow, we understand that some things are not guaranteed to succeed if we work hard.

During the summer vacation, my friend Xiao H wanted to practice driving and take a driver's license test, so he signed up. As soon as there was no accident in the subject, she passed it smoothly, which greatly enhanced her confidence, thinking that if she was more efficient, she would be able to get her driver's license before the start of school.

When she was practicing subject 2, she went out early and returned late every day, and she practiced all day long. For her, though, it was all worth it in order to get a driver's license.

In a blink of an eye, it was time to take the exam for subject two. Little H felt good about herself, and the coach also felt that she was fine. However, there was a problem when she waited for the real exam. Banpo made a mistake at the start, and she failed the second course.

What moment made you feel like you've grown up?

This time it really hit her a lot. I always felt that I had been so diligent, put in so much effort, and practiced so seriously, but in the end I failed like this, and I would inevitably feel wronged. But, this is life.

Not all efforts yield satisfactory results. However, even if the ideal result is not obtained, life will not let us go home empty-handed, and the process of hard work will make us gain a lot.

3. The third time we grow up, we are willing to do our best to try what we want to do, even if it is really difficult.

School has started, and Ah Fei is also a sophomore. Time flies so fast, and a year has passed in a blink of an eye. During the whole year of his freshman year, he joined the student union. This year's harvest was not much. He learned a lot and made a lot of friends.

However, relatively, he also lost a lot. During the first year of his freshman year, he basically devoted all his spare time to the student union. He seldom went to the library, had few recreational activities, and seldom went out to party with his friends.

In the new school year, the student council will change. He is very hesitant, not knowing whether to stay or not. It's hard to say what the future holds, but what is certain is that if you stay, there will still be a lot of work, and it will still be very busy. Obviously, if he left, he would have left more free space for his life.

But after hesitating, he still stayed, even if he knew, it was really not easy. A Fei said: "I still want to try to do something. Before tomorrow comes, before the enthusiasm is extinguished, I feel that if I stick to it for another year, I will gain more."

What moment made you feel like you've grown up?

We have grown up slowly, we have learned to persevere, we have learned to force ourselves, and we have learned to let a better self create a better life. The process of growing up may be painful, but this is the mark of youth that belongs to each of us, and it is also our most precious time.

I hope that when we grow up, we can all be the people we want to be.