The 3 manifestations that a college student is abolishing, unfortunately, most of them have taken all

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University used to be the best way for countless people to leap to the Dragon Gate. But at present, it seems more and more difficult to achieve a leap in life through college. There are also frequent reports that some people go to college and are "abandoned".

Of course, it is undeniable that the expansion of university enrollment has indeed led to the flood of college students and the reduction of the value of college students. But more importantly, many people's college life is moving in the direction of "more and more waste".

When a college student begins to have these 3 performances, he is slowly becoming decadent.

(1) It is not motivation but pressure that drives him

To see whether a person can succeed, the most important thing is to watch a little. Ordinary people are driven by pressure, while great people are driven by their inner drive.

Many people study under the pressure of teachers and parents when they are in high school. When they go to college, as soon as this pressure disappears, they start to "herd sheep" immediately.

Such people waste time doing nothing all day, or indulge in novel games. Only when the final exam comes, will there be a little motivation to study under the pressure.

After 4 years like this, there is no doubt that a person is basically abolished. It's not that he didn't learn knowledge and wasted time. But the spirit was completely wiped out.

(2) Inability to self-discipline and have a planned life

University is an "autonomous" place, where no one restricts you, requires you, and you decide and implement everything by yourself.

In such an environment, it is very important to learn to plan your life and maintain self-discipline. Moreover, for contemporary college students, the requirements for self-discipline are even higher.

Why do you say that? If it was put 20 years ago, when a college student was in class, if he didn't listen to the class, he would at most fall asleep. But now, with a mobile phone, there are so many things that can be done.

There is no doubt that the mobile Internet has turned the self-discipline of countless people into empty talk. You can play on the road, in class, in the library, and in bed, and never get bored.

In such an environment, if the level of self-discipline is not enough, you will find that time is inexplicably lost. I don't know what I did, but I just didn't do the right thing.

After 4 years of this, basically it is almost useless.

(3) Busy busy with no purpose

There is also a kind of depravity, which is obscure, but the danger is just as great.

College is full of choices, you can choose to be a socialite, you can choose to be a scholar, you can also be a workaholic. Each option will have a different future.

But again, too many choices confuse some people, they don't know how to choose, and they don't know what they want in the future. Seeing others socialize, she socializes too. Seeing others go to the library, she also goes to the library.

And she also had a sense of fulfillment: my college wasn't wasted. But I don't know that this is just a lie to myself, busy busy with no purpose, but can't persist for a few days, and in the end I get nothing.

Conclusion: 4 years of college is not short or long, but it is enough to change a person's destiny. Don't be the kind of college student who is "abolishing".

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