If you are over 40, don't make three kinds of friends, and don't touch the last one.

When I was young, I was always looking for "successful people" in the workplace who could make me progress. I always thought that when I was over middle-aged, I would at least not be disappointed when I recall it.

If you are over 40, don't make three kinds of friends, and don't touch the last one.

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But it was only after middle age that I realized that I still couldn’t stop your busy steps. The author has just turned forty-five years old. I have some workplace insights to share with you, and I hope it will help you in the workplace.

After middle-aged, I believe that your living standard will not be bad, so don't go to those rich people. Once there is an intersection, you will find that the current house-child is not big enough, and the money seems to be not enough to spend. In the workplace, I flatter others, which makes me look poor.

If you are over 40, don't make three kinds of friends, and don't touch the last one.

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Don't associate with those dignitaries. When you reach middle age, you will definitely have a certain reputation in your "workplace" circle. As long as you respect everyone, everyone will naturally respect you.

And when you want to establish a relationship with these dignitaries and join them, it will make you a dwarf, and you will inevitably look up to others and be looked down upon by others, and you will become a cheap bone in everyone's eyes.

When we first entered the workplace, we always felt that we were still very young, and it was normal to accompany colleagues, leaders, allies in the workplace, etc. to eat and drink all day long.

If you are over 40, don't make three kinds of friends, and don't touch the last one.

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But in middle age, you need to take care of all aspects of yourself, and you know that you are not only responsible for yourself, but also for your entire family.

The author has a particularly deep feeling for the last category. When I was young, I would meet with my “friends and friends” in the workplace to eat and drink all day long, maintaining the workplace relationship I thought was good. Only in the end did I realize that I was deceiving myself.

Your body belongs to you and your family!