If the university wants to be more successful than others and change the existing life, think about doing it!

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We are all eager to change, to change the current state of life, to yearn for the ideal life, and to look forward to a better future.

But there are some things in our daily life that we don’t want to do, and some may be because we don’t like them, and more often we are bound by laziness, one of our own skills.

I don't like to face it. I always feel that the active factor of escape is calling on us. In fact, in our daily life, we always encounter various problems and are unwilling to face them.

The reason is because I don't intend to change my current comfortable life, get out of the comfort zone of life, and it seems like a step away from the comfort zone to the challenge zone.

In fact, everyone has to undergo too many tests in their hearts, even if they know that the direction of the comfortable days is very slim.

But as long as you take this small step and enter the challenge zone, the road ahead may be a little harder and tiring.

But opportunities are everywhere and full of surprises. Of course, these surprises need to be explored by ourselves. Sometimes the results are not very important. What we pursue is the process of success.

You can make up your mind. If you give yourself five million out of thin air now and make yourself rich overnight, you will definitely be very excited at the time, but after the past, there will be nothing. This kind of thing will not make you feel cherished. because it came so easily

There are also many types of comfort zones. It is possible that you usually feel that many of your friends live their daily lives very casually. In fact, they are also envious of themselves deep down in their hearts about things you don’t know.

The author has a good friend. It can be said that the family conditions are very good. Among the peers, it can be said that he is the kind of classmate who lives very well.

The usual daily life may be the kind of people in the eyes of others. It is not an exaggeration to say that you are drunk with money. We have invited our classmates to play together many times, but a while ago, my friend suddenly made a circle. Change can be said to be completely contrary to his current state of life.

He is three years older than me. He is a senior this year. Except for some students who are taking the postgraduate entrance examination, he still maintains this kind of normal life in school every day, studying and studying, but more people are facing the problem of employment, and I am A classmate chose not to take the postgraduate entrance examination, but he did something that surprised many people

It is to give up the job provided by the family. You must know that such a position is sometimes yearned by many people and can be said to be the end goal of making ordinary people strive for life, and these are just the starting point for him as a graduating student. This is not the point. ,

The point is that he resolutely gave up such lucrative treatment conditions, and resolutely chose to go to the western mountainous area to teach, which was completely contrary to the original rhythm of life. He successfully took this step of change.

Although there are challenges, through the contact with him for a period of time, I found that he enjoys the process and has recently undergone great changes in some concepts.

To change, start by facing up to what you don't like, and start by doing something you don't like. You will find that what you don't like is not the thing itself, not the appearance, but the self who has worked hard but has not grown, the self who has made mistakes, the self who has failed, and the self who dare not accept love.

Do it, accept your own bad, imperfect, try it. Maybe life will give you little surprises.

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