How to finish four years of college with high quality?
The following are some experiences and values about four years of college, and they are also things you must know, which can help you solve 80% of the problems encountered in college life.
【About your appearance】
Appearance is very important. The important thing here is not how good your appearance is, but whether you have a good temperament and whether you keep it clean and fresh.
Wash your hair frequently! Trim your nails frequently! Guys, don't have long nails.
Girls must learn to wear makeup, learn how to wear makeup, you will find that your life has suddenly ended, and the boys in the whole hospital are lining up to chase you, and your self-confidence is also bursting.
Boys can also simply clean up, shave their eyebrows, shave their beards and trim their nose hairs, pay attention to sun protection in summer, and trim their hair every 20 days.
Miss and sisters like clean boys, so they are not mothers at all. If you are clean, you will surpass 80% of the boys.
Regardless of boys or girls, I think you need to take care of your skin. When you reach your senior year, you will find that some boys and girls are still like eighteen or nineteen, but some feel like they are twenty-five or six.
Everyone who has the conditions must go to exercise! fitness! Dance! It's all fine! ! Maintaining good fitness habits will not only bring you a good body, but also self-confidence from the inside out.
Don't think that cleaning yourself will waste time, the importance of cleaning yourself does not need to be low!
Those dormitory artifacts on the Internet, buy them according to your own needs. If you buy too much and take up too much public area, people in the dormitory will also have opinions.
【About dormitory and socializing】
Most of the social networking in the university is useless, but if you meet a senior or a senior who is chatting with you, don't let it go. They can give you a lot of advice.
In a nutshell, the university's social network is not extensive.
The essence of social interaction is the exchange of values. You don’t have the ability to make friends with people who are more capable than you. They won’t take it seriously. You still have to improve yourself.
Don't discuss with people who are not speculative, remember this sentence, summer insects can't speak ice!
Never speak ill of others behind their backs! ! ! No matter who you tell it to, he will feel that you are not a good person.
When we get to know a person, we don't look at what he says, but at his actions. There are many people with a knife-like mouth and a tofu heart, and there are also many people with two faces.
In the dormitory, you must be light-handed, and you must not put your hands on the outside while watching videos or listening to songs! Wear headphones, wear headphones, wear headphones!
If someone snores at night in the dormitory, you can go to a treasure to buy earplugs, and you will find that the world has never been so quiet.
Luckily, the university roommates will be your best friends, brothers and sisters for the past few years in college! But if you are unlucky, you can only be roommates! It's good to speculate, but don't force it if you don't.
If people in the dormitory quarrel, don't stand in line, be yourself!
Don't get along with your roommates without a purpose. Know what you are doing and have your own goals, instead of wasting time in the dormitory.
Sometimes you have to be able to go to class by yourself, to cook and eat by yourself, and don’t ask others to accompany you in everything.
If others help you, you must help others. If you want others to bring food, you must give money first!
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You don't care if others owe you fifty cents, but if you owe others fifty cents, you must give it! ! !
Don't set an alarm on weekends! Remember to turn off the lights when you go to bed! ! Open the door lightly! ! ! I don't need to say this.
Don't please others, those who know how to reject others will be respected by others! ! !
Don't complain, especially don't complain in front of your friends. It's very important to be able to think independently when you encounter problems.
Be humble, but don't lose your edge.
【About dating and friends】
You can have sex, but you must wear a condom! (Refusing to wear a condom is a scumbag, girls must protect themselves)
During the period of bang bang bang, it is better to be better after the second semester and the next semester, because you are too easy to be deceived as a freshman, I am afraid that you will not be able to distinguish and get hurt! ! !
Don't listen to the sweet words of boys in the early stages of their relationship. As a boy, I understand them best, and tell them that actions speak louder than words.
Don't be fooled, if they betray you, don't think they'll change for the better! ! ! ! Don't let yourself fall into the same hole twice!
If you are not interested, you should refuse it as soon as possible. Don't accept others' goodness to you at will. These good things have already been bid in secret.
Don't be fooled by the instructors in your freshman year. Many of the school instructors are seniors in the second and third year. They have deep routines, so be careful to distinguish them!
When roommates fall in love, don’t always let their boyfriends help you too! ! !
If you see someone you like as soon as you enter the university, you must do so as soon as possible. If you are not careful, the best ones will be caught and run away by others.
If you feel inappropriate and break up decisively, don't be afraid that you will hurt others and can't bear it. Breaking up is good for both of you.
On the contrary, if you are broken up, don't entangle. The more entanglement, the more you will hate the other party, and don't be humble. Love is to make you better, not bruised.
【About earning money and living expenses】
If you are not particularly short of money, you should not do part-time jobs that are purely manual labor. Use your brain to think about how to do bigger things. Only if you dare to think about it will you be successful.
Be sure to learn a skill, a developable skill, such as painting, writing, photography, etc.. It may not be profitable in the early stage, but the deeper you drill, you will find that making money is not so good Disaster.
Most of the part-time jobs that need to be paid are liars. Don't do it for micro-businesses. If you have the brain, you can open a Taobao store. Ali's 1688 can be purchased.
It is normal for university living expenses to be insufficient, so plan to save a little, and don’t always ask for money from your family.
It's okay to call your parents, they will miss you.
Learn to forcefully save money and manage your finances.
I recommend you a book "Rich Dad Poor Dad". These ideas about money, if you master them in college, will benefit you for a lifetime. (The official account has an electronic version, and the reply "Rich Dad" will be sent to you.)
Reduce your own desires, spend less on consumables, and don't be stingy on projects that improve yourself.
They may get kickbacks if you believe in the messy part-time jobs introduced to you by seniors and seniors.
Girls should withdraw immediately when they feel wrong. They must pay attention to the authenticity of the activities. If the water is too deep, you can avoid not participating. Try not to participate.
【About study and postgraduate entrance examination】
University study is up to you, no one will force you, you have to start planning your own life.
The sooner you prepare for the fourth and sixth grades, the sooner you pass the better. If you work hard, you can pass the fourth and sixth grades.
The driver's license must be tested early, the sooner the better! !
Don't take the certificate blindly, it is not necessary, but you must get it if you are interested in the direction or related to your major.
It’s really scary to fail a course. Don’t ignore it, think about sprinting for a few days at the end of the term. Most of the time it doesn't work!
If you don’t like your major, you can change majors. It’s difficult, but it’s not impossible. If you have an idea, prepare as soon as possible! Ask the instructor about the requirements for changing majors.
Every winter and summer vacation, you can find a way to get an internship in a good unit. Try to choose a big company in a big city. You will improve and gain a lot of knowledge.
Think early on whether you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination. If you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, prepare early. You will be much more relaxed than those who suddenly want to take the postgraduate entrance examination.
Not everyone has to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and postgraduate entrance examination is not necessarily a good way.
[Final suggestions]
Remember the saying in the movie Galaxy cram school, college is the process, not the end.
I hope you know that in a university, 80% of the people are salted fish. With a little effort, they will stand out in the crowd. It is up to you whether you want to be a salted fish or not.
Loneliness is a lifetime thing, no one will really understand you completely.
It is normal to not be understood, and it is possible to succeed. If everyone recognizes what you have done, it is not your turn to do this.
Not everyone has to go to work. Going to work is a choice, but not the best choice. I hope you can use the stress-free age in college to create the confidence and ability to do things yourself without going to work after graduation.
If you are used to running hard, you will not feel tired at all, and you will even get addicted, and you will get fun from it that ordinary people can't experience.
If you work hard and persevere, you will find that the friends around you have undergone qualitative changes.
There are two paths in life. One is to constantly expect yourself to do something now, and to hope that your real life has not yet begun. The other is to do it now and gradually become better and better. Good things are not What can be achieved by working hard for a day or two in a short period of time requires perseverance and hard work day after day.
And the source of persistence to work hard, the best motivation can be interest and the rewards he brings.
Come on, after entering the positive cycle, you will find that everything is not so difficult.