A 26-year-old female teacher, it has been a year since she resigned. I don't know how to choose?
Xiaoqing graduated from university in 2014 and after working as a teacher for more than three years, finally resigned in January 2018. When I just quit my job, I felt very happy, and I was not in a hurry to find a job. Sleep until you wake up naturally in the morning, look at English, and memorize words.
In the afternoon, I went to the library to read books, and read all kinds of books. Go for a run in the evening and exercise. I thought about going to learn dance and yoga at night, but I still wanted to stay at home with my family at night, so I didn't go.
I only tried to find a job in May, and I haven't been able to find a job I like. I'm feeling a little irritable now. All my relatives and friends are working, and I'm the only one who is idle and lacks confidence, especially the elderly at home. I don't like young people being idle the most, and I start to complain. Fortunately, my husband loves me and allows me to choose what I like to do and supports all my choices.
I am also quite conflicted now. Should I work or have children? Should I take the postgraduate entrance exam or not? After all, I am already 26 this year. A 26-year-old married and childless woman goes to graduate school, realistic?
@aegean123：
I used to work in an institution and felt bored, so I did sales for more than a year. Suddenly I realized that I still liked my old job.
I'm a college student, and I've thought about postgraduate entrance exams, but I haven't read English for many years. At the beginning, I liked to stay at home and enjoyed this rare free time.
After a long time, I got bored myself, and it was very difficult to change industry and find a job. And do not want to do the previous industry.
A 26-year-old female teacher, it has been a year since she resigned. I don't know how to choose?
@hailing_006:
I used to work in an enterprise and institution. Because I worked for too long, I felt more depressed and irritable, so I quit my job. It has been a year, and I have been looking for a position, but I feel that I am not good dry, since
Do it by yourself, and have no capital. Work part-time, there are not many good units. Even if you find it, everything has to start all over again. And now my husband has an opinion on me, it's really annoying! Fanfanfanfanfan annoying
@guoguo_1012:
I also recently quit my job for half a month. I read books every day, surf the Internet, rest, and I also signed up for a driving school to learn how to drive. However, with the support of my husband, life is not very stressful.
However, this is only temporary. No matter how good your husband is to you, women must find ways to pursue their own values and not indulge in the present. It's okay to take a break for a while, but not too long,
If you want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, it is best to combine it with your actual ability, major, and hobbies. Don’t just take a degree or certificate before taking the exam. The most important thing is to determine your own direction.
If you don't have a clear goal for the time being, you can use this time to read more books, relax yourself, and adjust appropriately. Life must go on, work hard!
@Snoopy2:
I am also 26, and I have been working in Shenzhen for almost two years. I have been working, working, and working every day for the past two years. It is rare that I want to go out to play on a weekend, but I have no energy, so I make up for sleep at home.
I have been doing this job for almost a year. I wanted to leave on the first day of the probationary period, and I have persisted until now. I have been very angry with the department manager. I have been able to persist until now. I admire myself and decide to do it. I left after one year, and I'm not angry anymore, but-----
I don’t dare to resign easily, although I hate this job to death, but fortunately the salary is not too low, resignation is very stressful, in Shenzhen, it’s a luxury to eat and drink without going to work, stick to it, go home at the end of the year, so tired~~~~~~
A 26-year-old female teacher, it has been a year since she resigned. I don't know how to choose?
@Mo Jiaren:
I experienced a lot of setbacks in 2018, and I was about to become disheartened. I decided to quit my job and give myself a short vacation of nearly 2 months. I went to the place I wanted to go by myself, saw the vast sea, and tasted the warmth of the world.
Although I have spent all my savings, I have regained my original intention that I lost in the busy work and chaotic life. I have been reflecting during this period, and I have also thought about many kinds of my own life. I only hope that my luck in 2019 will be less so Poor, live more firmly.
@strong son five:
I remember that after resigning in April 2018, I went to Chengdu and Chongqing for a walk, then took my mother to Beijing, Shanghai, Suzhou and Nanjing for a walk, and then helped my friends for more than a month, and officially started work in August, and I changed my job in a city, and my job search mentality was also ups and downs. I felt that 18 years were not very smooth, and I hope 19 years will be smooth.
In the days after resignation, everyone has their own arrangements. In a word, the workplace needs planning, and life needs planning even more. Take a look at the plans of netizens after resignation. If you resign, what are your plans?