Workplace: No matter how good friends are, there must be clear reckoning

As the saying goes, brothers, clear accounts, brothers are still like this, not to mention friends, some friends have a very close relationship, like one person, regardless of you and me, yours is mine, mine is you of.

There is also a saying to describe a good relationship. Except for the wife, which is not shared, everything else is shared. However, we often find friends who are so good. Instead, some trivial things make the relationship tense, and even lead to parting ways between friends. , So, no matter how good the relationship is between friends, the accounts must be settled.

Friendship is based on the same thoughts, interests and hobbies, as well as the common pursuit of career ideals. Money exchanges between friends are inevitable. Financial mutual help is an important link to verify friendship. Money It is also a sensitive thing. If you handle it properly, it will not damage the relationship between each other. If you handle it improperly, it will cause a lot of trouble. Many people lose friends because of little money.

Building friendship on money is like building high-rise buildings on the beach. This kind of friendship is not reliable, and this kind of friendship is not true friendship, but fake friendship.

Therefore, only economic independence can bring us a pure friendship that will not deteriorate. If there is no economic distinction between you and me in friendship, confusion is unclear, and money is spent together, this will not deepen friendship, maybe will have adverse effects.

Too many people start off as good as a single person, but in the end it's all because of the issue of interests, and they get into trouble.

It is human nature to exchange gifts between friends, exchange gifts, eat and drink, etc., but we can't think that good friends can be financially indistinguishable between you and me. You become friends because of friendship, not financial intimacy, and the two should not be confused.

We should use money correctly between friends. Its first principle is the economic issues between friends. It should not be ambiguous. It must be clear. If we do not handle this properly, we will lose our friendship. Money corrodes our friendship, let it serve our friendship, maintain that we should remain independent in money, distinguish between you and me, only then will the road of friendship last longer.