When children enter puberty, they often have these 'three major needs', do parents know?
Adolescence is a process that every child will go through. There will always be some students who fail at this stage. In fact, it is inextricably linked with parents. Children entering adolescence basically have these three needs. However, often It was ignored by parents, and as a result, the child was ruined at this stage. Parents, do you know?
- Privacy and Freedom
Adolescent children pay great attention to these two aspects, especially in terms of privacy. Children can be said to have their own absolute bottom line. Parents should never try to spy on their children's privacy, which will make children very disgusted and even arouse them. Rebellion will easily destroy the child. Moreover, it is freedom. Children in this period have their own thoughts and always want to have their own free time. This is a normal situation. Parents should not make a fuss. The child has a certain freedom, so that the child can easily pass through adolescence.
- Parental equality and respect
Children at this stage have a stronger and stronger sense of adulthood. They hope to be treated equally and respected by their parents, and not to treat them as adults. As parents, we should pay attention to the needs of children at this stage. These two points are the most basic. Parents should lead by example and set their own position, which is more conducive to children's adolescence. If they want to treat children at this stage as parents, it will often be counterproductive.
- Parental approval
Adolescent children most want to be recognized by others, especially their parents. In order to gain their parents' recognition, they will do something specially for their parents to see, so as to see their own growth, and at the same time, to gain their parents' recognition. , As a parent, you should understand the mind of your adolescent child and give your child some affirmation, which is very beneficial to their growth.
Parents should know these needs of adolescent children as soon as possible, so as not to delay the growth of their children because of their own unknowns, it will be too late to regret at that time. Parents, are you doing this? How do you deal with your child's puberty?