The way to toast and persuade everyone in the workplace
In the workplace, it is inseparable from the occasion of the wine table, communication with leaders, business negotiations with colleagues, celebrations and banquets, all kinds of things are inseparable from entertaining guests, so as a workplace person, you should know the rules and etiquette at the wine table, Let's take a look at some of the methods of toasting and persuading you must know as a professional.
The customs and habits of each place are different, so when toasting, special attention should be paid to adapting measures to local conditions and following the local customs. In northern regions such as Northeast Inner Mongolia and other northern regions, when toasting, they often pay attention to "dry when ready". In their opinion, this is the only way In order to express sincerity and respect, you should pay attention to specific responses. You should frankly explain that your alcohol intake is not good in advance. Make the other party feel very unhappy. In addition, for the toaster, if the other party is really poor in drinking, there is no need to force it. The highest level of drinking should be to drink well, not to drink it down.
Western food generally uses champagne to toast, toast, and only toast without persuading wine, only toast without really clinking glasses, in addition, you can't go over the people around you or toast people who are far away, especially cross toasts.
When Chinese people make a toast, they often think that the more the better, to show that they have done what the host should. The more the guests drink, the better.
If you can afford yourself, the host will be happier. If the guests don't drink, the host will feel very shameless, so on the basis of toasting, there is persuasion to drink. Some people have summarized several ways to persuade people to drink, "Wen Jing" "Wu Jing"" Punishment and respect".
"Wen Jing" is a manifestation of traditional wine morality. It is both polite and respectful to persuade guests to drink. When the feast begins, the host usually starts the first toast after a few words. And do it, and turn the empty glass down to show that you have finished drinking to show respect for the guests. The guests usually have to finish their drinks. During the banquet, the host often goes to each table to toast, and some places are called table tandem.
"Wu Jing" is a kind of domineering behavior at the wine table. This way of persuading people to drink does not conform to the traditional way of persuading people to drink. It is best not to use the way of Wu Jing.
Punishment of drinking is a special way of toasting in Chinese. There are various reasons for punishing drinking. The most common one may be three drinks for those who are late to the banquet, and sometimes it is a bit of a joke. way to avoid negative effects!
In order to persuade the drink, there are many interesting words on the banquet, such as "deep feelings, one mouthful", "strong feelings, drink enough", "light feelings, lick it", ladies persuade men to "excited hearts, trembling hands, I will pour it out for the leader. A cup of wine, the leaders don’t drink it and think I’m ugly.” The middle-aged man persuaded the wine, “A big river has wide waves, and we will do it when you pick up this glass.” Men's "drinking makes heroes courageous, but refuses to accept the wife's control". Friends persuade each other to drink, "men don't drink, they will walk in the world in vain", persuade to drink liquor, "drink and drink white, they will not be emotionally strong", and persuade each other to drink, "lift your butt and drink a lot." Come, move your butt to show respect" These words are very interesting and necessary to persuade drinking.