Knowing people at dinner: People who never take the initiative to toast are often these three types of people
After we entered the social workplace, the dinner table is a social place we often go to, because China has been a human society since ancient times. It is more common to talk about things and business at the dinner table. At the same time, Because people are relatively relaxed at the dinner table, the success rate of talking about things and business will also increase.
And as we attend more and more dinner parties, we will meet more and more people at dinner parties. As long as we think carefully, we will find that there will be some interesting phenomena at dinner parties. For example, at dinner parties, There are some people who never take the initiative to toast others, only occasionally someone will come to toast him.
After we analyze and summarize them in detail, we will find that these people who never take the initiative to toast others can often be roughly divided into the following three types of people, see if you are among them?
- People who are not used to drinking
The reason why some people never take the initiative to toast at dinner is because they are not used to drinking. Specifically, some of them are because they don’t like drinking, and some are because their body is not very good, their tolerance to alcohol is not high, and they will get drunk or allergic to alcohol when they drink.
Therefore, they will try to keep a low profile at the dinner party, never take the initiative to bring up or intervene in the topic of wine, and they will not take the initiative to toast others, so as not to drink.
And when they meet someone toasting him, they will either decline or substitute drinks such as tea, so that they will not lose their etiquette, nor cause them to go against their will or hurt their bodies. , or lost his temper because of being drunk, and made some inappropriate actions.
And when we meet such people, we don’t have to force them to drink alcohol, because alcohol was originally used as a communication tool, but now it is unpleasant or hurts the body because of this tool, and it goes against the original will.
- People who don't like drinking table communication
There are also some people who never take the initiative to toast others at a dinner party. These people are people who don't like to socialize at the wine table. They don’t like to communicate at the wine table very much. Such people are generally more assertive. They don’t frequently toast to the people around them. They want to have a good relationship with the people around them. They often only pay attention to what they value. , some interpersonal relationships that are more valuable or more friendly to oneself.
Such people tend to be more upright, and they won't flatter others with a glass of wine, but when someone toasts them, they will also respond politely and respectfully. This kind of person who doesn't like to communicate at the wine table just doesn't like to do these superficial skills. The way of doing things is more correct, not as smooth as those who like to toast to the people around them frequently, and they are more respected.
- People of higher status
The last part of the people who will not take the initiative to toast others is those people with higher status. They are often stronger and more confident. They don’t need him to take the initiative to toast others. He toasts. But when it is more necessary, such as when expressing encouragement and praise to the employees below, they will also do their best to drink table etiquette and toast everyone.
Sometimes, these people with higher status, because of the different levels, pay more attention to the real value and interests, and when they don’t care about the superficial skills, everyone will not toast each other and pretend to each other, so They will not take the initiative to raise a toast.