It's the same job-hopping, why do people get better and better?

Three years ago, Xiao Shen and I left the overseas service company together. The reason for leaving at that time was that the job was too hard, and there was often no subsidy for overtime, and the salary did not increase much within two years of graduation. I jumped to another company in the same industry. I didn't want to change careers. I didn't want to give up the accumulation of the past few years. The environment of the new company was relaxed and the salary was slightly higher. I was very satisfied. I once persuaded Xiao Shen to come with me, but she said she wanted new challenges and new attempts.

I haven’t seen each other for two years in a blink of an eye. When I see Xiao Shen again, she is already the operations director of an Internet company in Shanghai. At the age of 28, she can earn 40W. Looking at her daily full and busy circle of friends, I feel ashamed and like it. I'm sorry.

Finally one day I couldn't hold back my curiosity and asked her: How did you do it? How can I not.

After chatting with Xiao Shenshen for a while, I finally found out that the choice I once disliked was actually a foreshadowing bought in the dark:

I just chose another company, Xiao Shen chose a new industry

Because I didn't want to waste the accumulated experience, and because I was afraid of the uncertainty of starting from scratch, I chose to do the "old job" that was more beneficial to me. After a while, nothing can keep me alive, and the days of my old life are my safe shell, which can be locked in and never attacked.

Xiao Shen has already seen through the industry, and he also clearly knows what kind of position and salary he can get if he continues to work. It is also out of the pursuit of ideals that Xiao Shen chose a younger industry in the end.

I just follow the steps as long as I make small progress, and Xiao Shen is the best at what he has to do.

All these years, I have basically been adhering to the quiet life of the years, and Xiao Shen has continued to work hard to further his studies after completing the current work at hand.

There is a saying that whether a person has a future depends on two aspects, one is where your money is spent and the other is where your time is spent.

When I was still spending money and trying to lose weight and look bad in order to marry a good family, Xiao Shen had already taken several courses and passed the postgraduate entrance exam, and often joined various circles to study with big coffees. Not only that, because the overtime culture of the new company is relatively serious, Xiao Shen never complained. According to her words, please love if you choose. It is precisely because of countless overtime days and nights that Xiao Shen, a layman, has grown up quickly.

I just have to live by, Xiao Shen is taking every step of the way

Otherwise, I can only say that the salary is the lowest level. After working for these years, my hope is that I can earn a few hundred yuan more every month next year than this year. In short, a little rich is safe, and there is no plan for life, not even a plan.

And Xiao Shen is the kind of person who hopes that he can become a supervisor in two years and a director in five years. Sometimes these words come from the mouth of a newcomer, but in fact, when you are strict with yourself, lead by example, and take dreams as horses, the whole world will give way to you.

Although in the process of hard work, there will definitely be many difficulties and troubles, but as the saying goes, those who cannot defeat you will eventually make you grow, and those who let you enjoy comfort will eventually ruin you. reason.

It is said that the best time to plant a tree was ten years ago. It has only been five years. I hope it is still too late.