How to help children decompress during winter vacation? First, pay attention to these three points
I still remember that when I was in my third year of high school, I went to school on the sixth day of the first lunar month, and didn’t go home until the end of the college entrance examination. I spent half a year in school. Of course, the conditions are better now. Even in the third year of high school, you can basically go back once a month. Even if you can't go back, parents will come to the school to see their children. But no matter what, I think for senior high school students and parents, they should take advantage of this holiday.
As a parent who is escorting their children's college entrance examination, how to accompany their children through this winter vacation, and how to help their children learn without putting pressure on them? I think the following four aspects should be mainly paid attention to.
- Learning
At this time, the first round of review for the college entrance examination is coming to an end, which means that the basic knowledge that should be reviewed has basically been reviewed. Little by little, I started to review from the basics, but reviewed directly through exams and other methods. So for students, we must take good care of this winter vacation. Which subject is more partial? What knowledge points are you not familiar with? This is the last chance to counterattack. Because next semester, facing exams and rankings again and again, do you still have the opportunity to slowly nibble on the knowledge points you don't know?
For students with poor study or partial subjects, they must calm down during the winter vacation, whether it is to review at home or through other methods, in short, must find a way to seize the last opportunity; if it is studying Students with good grades can do several sets of test papers at home, stabilize their state, and don’t lose the feeling of doing questions.
- Mentality
Whether it's the final exam or the city-wide January exam organized by some localities, the students have just gone through a large-scale exam, and many regions attach great importance to this exam. Similar to the college entrance examination, there will be a ranking after the test, the ranking of the whole school or even the ranking of the whole city.
On the one hand, this exam is quite valuable for reference. Parents can use this exam to evaluate their children and pay attention to news about college volunteers in advance. On the other hand, this exam may affect their children's mentality. If the child does well in the test, he should not be complacent, and if he does not do well, he should not be discouraged. Parents must encourage the student and help the child adjust their mentality. It should be noted that parents should not put too much pressure on their children. The college entrance examination will only take more than 100 days. To a large extent, the child's ability cannot be changed, and it is not the child's that can affect the child's performance in the end. Knowledge and ability, but mentality and examination strategies, so parents must not "add fuel to the fire", and do not put too much pressure on children.
- Work and rest
In school, the students basically started from six in the morning to ten in the evening, just like an engine that never stopped for a moment. As soon as the winter vacation comes, many children think that they can have a good rest, so they start to relax. They sleep until 12:00 noon every day, and don’t sleep until the second half of the night when they play at night... During the first day or two of vacation, the children indulge It's understandable, but it can't be the same for the entire winter vacation. Because once the biological clock is formed, it is difficult to change. Although children are not required to strictly follow the school schedule, they should get up before 8 am and go to bed before 11 pm. After all, they only have more than 100 days to go. The "warrior" who entered the college entrance examination room! For them, time is really precious!