How can the relationship between work, family and happiness be harmonious

The editor believes that everyone must have thought about the relationship between the three and practiced various living methods. Today, we will discuss with you how to make the three harmonious:

【1】What is home?

Home is our emotional habitat; it is our material backing; it is our entertainment world; it is the base of our future development or the cell of society. What about work? Often we understand work as a means of earning money, supporting a family, or gaining social status. We should not only be limited by this kind of thinking, but it should also be a stage for the protection of physical and mental health, a stage for displaying morality and talent, and a source of happiness for us. Because we have different interests and hobbies, only work can give us a stage for display and development.

【2】What is happiness?

In an era of mental confusion, the definition of happiness becomes more urgent and important. Happiness seems to be all around us. Simple things are at our fingertips, and ordinary tricks are just around the corner. However, ask us in reality, how many of us will admit that they have comprehended the true meaning of happiness and obtained true happiness? Material satisfaction is relatively short-lived and decreasing; family affection, friendship, and love originating from the emotional level are more stable and beneficial than the material level; originating from beliefs, such as various religious expectations and contemplation for happiness; originating from self realized, such as scientists, artists, philanthropists, etc., achieve eternal happiness through the happiness of others.

[3] Understand the interaction between work, family and happiness

In the editor's opinion, the relationship between work, family and happiness is interrelated and restrictive. Career is the pillar of family and happiness; family is the foundation of career and happiness; happiness is the guarantee of family and career, and their roles. Due to the relationship between work and energy, if you want to do a good job in each role, you will not only bear a lot of pressure in mental and physical strength, resulting in the phenomenon of being unable to do what you want, but also cause constant conflicts and troubles in work and life. Over time, you will be exhausted. Therefore, it is necessary to choose the right way and establish a reasonable life goal. First of all, you must consider the factors that affect yourself, analyze your current situation, determine your status, and then formulate your own life goals, including family, marriage, career, and so on. To communicate adequately within the family is to try to reach a consensus or obtain the understanding and support of the family. Determine your own role to dominate, and then set a timetable to reasonably arrange your own life rhythm, such as childbirth and childcare. Taking care of parents, career, etc. different responsibilities. The last step is to formulate the implementation plan, find out the gap between the plan and the status quo, make appropriate arrangements, and formulate the best solution.

[4] How to balance the relationship between the three?

1. Identify and prioritize family and work priorities. If "you can't have it both ways"

It's about prioritizing work and family. The best way to do this is to take a long-term view and see what matters most in the next five or ten years. Because in the long run, most problems at work or at home seem less serious. If something upsets your work-life balance, causing you to sleep at night, or feel physically and mentally exhausted, or have difficulty concentrating on the work at hand, it's wise to ask yourself if you're trying to get too far Do too many things. Distinguishing priorities and learning to say "no" with a firm attitude is an important issue for most people to solve.

2. To renew the concept and change the guilt factor brought by the traditional family concept and model.

The imbalance between work and family often creates guilt for working parents. If the mother is on a business trip and the father takes the child to eat fast food, some people will think that the family is messed up! Actually it shouldn't be considered that way. Because, modern professional families need to have different standards of family and work relationship from traditional families. To find a way to strike a balance between the two big things of family and career, it is necessary to dispel the guilt that arises from it. Therefore, changing the concept and adjusting the mentality will be very helpful to promote balance.

3. Practical countermeasures for families.

There are at least 4 concrete ways a couple can reduce family work

The impact of doing:

① Take measures such as delaying childbearing or hiring a nanny to reduce the impact of the family on work; ② Appropriate division of labor between husband and wife, and devote energy to work and family in turn;

③ The couple engage in the same occupation or choose the same unit to promote each other;

④ Both husband and wife are engaged in completely unrelated work and pursue their own careers. But either way, people need to think carefully about the relationship between work and family, depending on the situation. Moreover, as work challenges intensify and family structures change, new ways of coordinating and balancing work and family must be explored.

[5] Maintain a positive attitude and properly resolve conflicts

Taking into account the coordinated development of family and career, we are often prone to conflicts in real life, and we often encounter conflicts and troubles in life and career. First of all, we need to know how the contradiction is formed and the primary and secondary relationship; secondly, we must grasp the main contradiction and clarify our own goals; then use the method of substitution and turning to solve the contradiction; finally, open our hearts and talk to solve the contradiction.

【6】Continuous learning to improve your own quality

In the era of knowledge economy, social development is changing with each passing day. As college students in the new era, in order to survive and develop in the fierce competition, they must strengthen their own learning and master a wider range of knowledge in a planned way. There is no limit to learning, no limit to knowledge, no limit to practice, no limit to thinking! The important thing is that knowledge changes destiny, and learning changes life. The most important thing is to improve the ability to balance work, family and happiness.