Don't be too flamboyant, and be properly restrained in order to achieve great things
When people do things, they seem to be pursuing vigor and vigor. However, throughout the past and present, those who have achieved success have actually shown more of a low-key principle of doing things. In fact, compared with high-profile behavior, low-key It is safer and safer to do things, and the resistance and difficulty encountered are less, and it is easier to achieve great things.
The ancients believed that having an edge is a good thing and the foundation of a successful career. It is not only necessary but also necessary to show it on an appropriate occasion. However, an edge can stab others as well as yourself, so use it with caution. , Excessive exposure of one's talents will only lead to one's failure, especially those who do great things, who are sharp-edged, cannot achieve the purpose of career success, and may lose their fortune and life!
The ancients said: "A gentleman should not show his talents, but not his talents." If a person always likes to show his talents and show his excellence, then he will inevitably suffer a lot of setbacks. , In real life, a man should properly hide his edge to avoid some open guns and dark arrows.
In the complicated workplace, when the time is not ripe, or when the environment is not favorable for you, deliberately or unintentionally showing off your talents will lead to the jealousy of others, and will be regarded as frivolous. The so-called "talent must be hidden" not only It is only a way of survival and a way of competition.
The wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it, the line is higher than the people, and the crowd will not do it. Young people have a common problem, that is, after entering a new working environment, they are eager to show their talents and strengths, and hope to be recognized by others as soon as possible, even admiringly. From time to time, there will be a rush to run, but prematurely setting off and getting involved in the competition will also form some potential passive and dangerous.
If you are too eager to perform, you will be prematurely involved in the workplace battle for promotion. There is a general rule in promotion, that is, the elimination system. Through continuous elimination, you can achieve pyramid-style job promotions and enter prematurely. Going to this process means that it may be eliminated prematurely, and sometimes elimination may be an unfair and disgraceful, artificial black-box operation and exchange of interests, and premature involvement may become an innocent victim. .
When a young man first arrives, he must have an unstable foundation. Although he is prosperous, he cannot withstand the wind and the frost. If you do not have accumulated trump cards, but you will show all the eighteen martial arts in one go, you will answer the Chinese saying.” Good words can't be said, strength can't be used up, talent can't be revealed. "Once you're at the end of a big shot, and even Lu Zheng can't wear it, he will definitely be scorned and expelled from the field. At that time, wouldn't his hard work and efforts be in vain, so in the end, The successful ones are often late movers.
Therefore, in the process of promotion competition, you must properly restrain your desires, do not be overly impulsive, express your eagerness beyond words, and do not get involved in this kind of competition prematurely, otherwise it will bring harm to your work. Disadvantage, people who like to show off when they have a little ability in the workplace are stupid. Such people often make too many enemies because of their arrogance, so that others cannot get along with each other. This kind of edge is like the horn growing out of the forehead. If If you don't want to smooth it out by yourself, after a long time, it is bound to be broken by others, and then you will be seriously injured.