One of the things that college students will experience in the dormitory, everyone is annoying, but they are unavoidable

Whether the university dormitory should bring meals to roommates, some say it depends on the situation, some say it depends on the mood, and some say it depends on the money. The answer is very good now and the heart is very firm, but it will be difficult for you to be a dormitory or a friend who asks you to bring meals. After all, everyone is begging you. So should you bring meals to your dormmates in college? The answer is no!

First, you never know what your roommate wants to eat

When you go to dinner, your roommate asks you to bring food, and you ask her what to eat, she will always say casually, and then spread out on the bed and continue to play mobile phones or sleep. When you brought the meal to her face, she didn't eat it after two bites, saying what it was really unpalatable, and complained about you or questioned which mouthful you bought it from, and finally acted as a donkey's liver and lung.

In fact, the meals are all the same, except that she may not be hungry when you bring it, and the meal will be cold after she brushes her teeth and washes her face, which is of course unpalatable. In the end, I can only complain in my heart, bringing you food is just giving you face, and you still dislike this.

Second, bring food and spend your own money

The better the relationship, the more difficult it is to distinguish many things. If you help her bring food, maybe she forgot to give you money, but you are embarrassed to ask for it afterward, thinking that this favor makes her owe a lot, and she may ask her to bring food in the future.

But later, because you were busy and didn't have time to eat, you dragged your friend to bring you meals, but she turned to you for money, and you had to give it to her. After all, you couldn't learn from her like that! So if you don't want to owe others favors or let others take you for granted, then don't ask others to bring you food, and don't agree to bring food to others.

Third, one at a time, n next time

There are five roommates in a dorm, if you bring meals to one of them. Then other roommates who don't want to go to dinner will also ask you to bring meals.

My friend usually asks her roommate at dinner: Is there anyone going to eat? Everyone said that she was not hungry and did not want to eat, but when she was about to eat, many people said: Ah! Bring me a meal, bring me a bottle of water, or buy me some snacks. Sometimes they have to ask you to help pick up the courier, because they usually ask you to help with these trivial matters, knowing that you will generally not refuse.

Lastly, they'll come to you whenever they have a little thing, especially something they can do, but are too lazy to do. The reason is that your usual kindness has fueled their lazy habit, and slowly and unknowingly you have become an errand runner.

Although friends need to help each other, it also depends on what kind of busy they are. If she is sick or has some urgent matters, she has no way or time to eat.