Kindergarten 'cold violence' that parents don't know takes root in children's hearts, and the consequences are unimaginable
As parents attach great importance to their children's education, under normal circumstances, parents will send their children to kindergarten when their children are 2/3 years old. In this way, on the one hand, children can be exposed to knowledge earlier and have playmates; on the other hand, parents can relax and work with peace of mind. From this point of view, the role of kindergarten is very big.
However, once the child enters kindergarten, the interaction with the parents will be much less. Parents have no way of knowing what is going on with their children most of the day. If something bad happens to a child at school, it is difficult for parents to know in the first place. What the author wants to talk about today is that the "cold violence" that exists in kindergartens, unknown to parents, takes root silently in the hearts of children.
- Children hug and isolate a child
Many parents may think that children in kindergarten are still young and do not have so much scheming at all. In fact, although children's minds are immature, children will more or less have seasonal psychology. If a child is often praised by the teacher, other children will be jealous and will not want to play with the child. However, this phenomenon is rare.
- The child is bullied, but the teacher does not respond
Although it is normal for children to fight each other, it is inevitable that there will be real situations. In general, teachers can find problems and solve them in time. However, if something is not particularly obvious, it is difficult for the teacher to spot it. For example, a classmate likes to bully another classmate, but it is difficult to attract the teacher's attention if there is no excessive behavior. Sometimes, even if the child reports to the teacher, the teacher will ignore it because he is too busy.
- The teacher scare the child
Many teachers will adopt the educational method of scare children, not only teachers, but also many parents, hoping to intimidate and threaten children so that children do not do wrong. Although this method of education is effective, it is not good for children's growth and character cultivation if they are used all the time. If the teacher keeps intimidating the child, it will make the child reject going to kindergarten, and over time, the child's character will become timid.
Children who have just started kindergarten are still very young, and they are still in the developmental stage in terms of character and mind. Children at this time are fragile and sensitive, and any "disturbances" that adults don't care about will have a very big impact on them. If a child encounters the above-mentioned "cold violence" in kindergarten, the child's character will be greatly affected over time.