Is it a parent's problem or a teacher's problem?

A child's achievement depends not only on the child's talent and hard work, but also on the environment in which he lives, and parents and teachers are undoubtedly the people who are closely related to the child's achievement. The quality of a child's grades cannot be attributed to parents or teachers in a general way, but must be looked at in detail. As a classroom teacher who has been teaching for many years, the author's insights are as follows.

1. Family education is the foundation and motivation for children's development. Some people say that parents are the best teachers of enlightenment for their children, which is not wrong at all. The education a child receives before going to primary school or even kindergarten is closely related to the child's future development. A well-educated child in the family stands out and excels on the first day sitting in the classroom. Such children are very favored by teachers and the habits of their classmates. They will easily develop a confident character and be more interested in new things, which will have a good effect on their future development. The ancients said, "Three-year-old sees old, seven-year-old sees old", this is the truth. Even in high school and college, parents' attention and level can see the places that teachers can't take into account, and it can also help children avoid detours.

Besides, parents' hard work and harmonious parent-child relationship will also become the driving force for children's struggle.

2. The role of teachers cannot be underestimated. Now there is a trend of thought, that excellent children depend entirely on the children's efforts and family training, and the role of teachers is minimal. Some people also give an example of very good high school students who can be admitted to their favorite universities wherever they are placed. In fact, this is really a huge misunderstanding of partial generalization, only seeing the present and ignoring the past.

From primary school, children spend most of their study time in school, and all courses are systematically taught by teachers of various subjects and carefully followed up. It is hard to imagine that a child who is completely out of school will continue to excel. Mr. Cai Xiaowan, who has cultivated all five children into talents, expressed his gratitude to the teachers who educated his children in his educational works.

3. Home-school cooperation can cultivate talents together. Reasonable parents often tell their children that teachers and parents have the same idea, and the purpose is to make you a talent. Indeed, education is a long and arduous process. On the road to a child's success, only teachers and parents can work together to create a good environment for children and make them better. what do you say?