Don't let 'roar coaching' hurt your child, here are three things you need to do
During the current epidemic, many children have to accept online teaching and homework guidance at home. The most frustrating time for most parents is when they help their children with homework.
Contribution from a father: The child is in the first grade of primary school, and the mother usually tutors the child to be short-tempered. If the child cannot learn for a while, he will keep yelling at a high decibel. I have persuaded many times to no avail. Watching the child speak to us also starts When roaring, I felt that something should be changed.
If you feel that your child is not learning well, you should beat and scold your child. This has become the consensus of some parents. But does this approach really work?
When a child is scolded by a parent, his first reaction is fear, and then he has an instinct to protect himself. This instinct is to escape or fight. When the child is unable to fight, he can only choose to escape.
At this time, the blood of the brain will be quickly transferred to the limbs, causing the brain to be temporarily ischemia. Then, whatever the parents teach at this time, he can't receive it. The parents are still there talking, and the children can't listen. The child will only behave worse, and the parents will be more anxious and scolded, and as a result, the child and the parent will fall into a vicious circle, which can only end in the child crying or the parent going into a rage.
More importantly, this kind of emotion and feeling will make the child form a long-term memory. If the child encounters the same problem in the future, the child will first be afraid, thinking that he can't remember or learn from his heart, and naturally think of escape.
In addition, when the child grows up and the parents beat and scold the child again, the child's reaction may be to fight. Although most children will not fight with their parents, they will resist in their hearts and resist their parents, thus forming a rebellious mentality.