Why do many college students always like to stay in the dormitory, are you the same?

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Netizen one:

Nowadays, "I want to stay at home during the holidays, my friends are only on WeChat, my family has not been in contact for a long time, and the entertainment mainly relies on mobile phones" has become the norm for people. The reason behind this, in addition to what everyone calls "poor", may also be due to their own choice.

The development of the Internet service industry, such as Taobao, take-out and other home delivery services, allows college students to sleep in the dormitory all day, watch TV shows, and play games, making it possible to stay at home.

Moreover, the rich online social networking allows college students to have the illusion of "I am not alone" even when they are alone, as if they have gained a sense of social satisfaction. But it is worth noting that online social networking cannot be a substitute for face-to-face social networking. Some psychological studies have found that face-to-face interpersonal communication is beneficial to people's physical and mental health, while online social networking does not have such a function. Going social can even have the opposite effect.

Netizen two:

Today's young people are actually very "self", and the reflection of the collectivism of the past in contemporary college students is getting weaker and weaker.

However, in the process of getting out of the dormitory and interacting with people, people have to encounter some times when they need to compromise, or even do something against their will. Today's young people are more reluctant to compromise or make concessions, do not want to wrong themselves because of others, and do not want to assume some responsibilities and obligations that may arise in social interaction. This also prompted them to choose to "stay in the dormitory".

Are you also a person who likes "house"?

Netizen three:

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When couples are kissing each other on the lawn, single dogs can only curl up in the dormitory; when couples meet carefully in the library, single dogs can only curl up in the dormitory; when couples are strolling on the street, single dogs can only curl up In the bedroom; when couples go shopping and have dinner, single dogs can only curl up in the bedroom. In Chinese universities, there are always tens of thousands of single dogs alive. They are not cared for by anyone. Rather than wandering around alone, it is better to live a single life of self-entertainment in the dormitory.

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