These kinds of families are too exhausted to raise caring and obedient children! Especially the second one!
Now is an era of technology, which is enough for children to thrive. Now some parents are reflecting that their children are more introverted and can't see smiling faces all day. In fact, these performances also have a lot to do with parents' education. Let's take a look at some of the unqualified parents.
The first is parents who often quarrel. If a child lives in a quarreling family for a long time, you must know that the child's mind is very sensitive. If you stay in such an environment for a long time, it will cause depression and a tense life atmosphere. , will affect the child's learning and life, endanger the child's growth. Both parents are the closest person to the child, and also the warmest harbor for the child. If they live in a discordant living environment for a long time, they will be indifferent to others, and they will lack a sense of trust, so they will become indifferent. Some will go astray and endanger society.
The second is parents who do not know how to communicate, which is also the failure of typical Chinese education. There are many such people in China. These parents do not give praise and praise to their children, and they are always dissatisfied with their children, even in a state of criticism. In China, this type of education is called critical education, and it has always been admired by parents. In fact, it is a failure. Faced with the blow of their parents, many children will feel very discouraged behind their backs, and they will become more negative since then.
The third is that in a family where the wife is not respected, children living in this family will raise unfilial children. Such children are modeled by their fathers and will not respect their mothers for a long time. But now there are many domestic violence families in China. In normal times, they scold their wives and even slap their wives.
The fourth is a family that often plays with mobile phones. Whether it is when your child is studying or playing games, you are playing with your mobile phone next to you. It is implying that the child has a mobile phone by himself, because the child's imitation ability is very strong, so if you do this, you will realize the child from it.
Parents should know that home is the warmest harbor for children, and you are the best care for children. Therefore, you should start from yourself at home and be a good example for your children. Whether you are a father or a mother, you must do your best. protect the growth of children.