Interpretation of poor children and rich children! Countless parents have come to their senses: It turned out that they were all wrong before!
When I was a child, there was a saying passed down from family to family, "the poor raise the children and the rich raise the daughters". Many people misunderstood this sentence and did not understand the real essence, but no one of them analyzed the real meaning. Recently, Tsinghua University's The professor reinterpreted this sentence, which made many parents wake up. As for raising a poor child and a rich daughter, as a parent, they would feel that this sentence is to make the boy suffer more, and to raise a daughter should give her the best living conditions. But it falls into the family's education. In fact, it is not simple at all, and it is not the concept of poor and rich.
I remember a well-known professor from Tsinghua University mentioned this sentence in another important speech. The professor has always believed that, different from girls' educational viewpoints, the poor and rich children among the poor and the rich are actually in his childhood. He cultivates his sense of responsibility when he is young, and enriching the adopted daughter is the personal cultivation of girls. It's not about treating children differently. For boys in the family, on the surface, they are poor, but in fact, it is to let the children learn to be self-sufficient, experience the frustration of life, and the joy of success, let a boy learn to take responsibility and take responsibility, and learn to make contributions to the society , this is what a man should learn.
After reading the boys, I am talking about the real meaning of being rich and adopting daughters. It is not how advantageous conditions are for girls, but the experience of cultivating girls. A girl with rich experience is not only pursuing material life, but focusing on inner life. It is not a vanity appearance, but a kind of love for girls, so that the children also have a sense of responsibility and mission in their hearts. But everyone must remember that loving your daughter is not a great thing, let the child learn to analyze things correctly, and make the child's childhood full of happiness and warmth.
It seems that according to Professor Tsinghua's analysis, everyone has a new understanding of this sentence. Don't subconsciously interpret this sentence literally, but in the final analysis, whether it is a boy or a girl, it should not pay attention to the surface or appearance. It is necessary to cultivate the inner beauty of children, through education, to cultivate their children into pillars that are beneficial to the country and the people, and to pay attention to their own family education. This is something every parent needs to improve. It's not that you provide your child with the best quality of life. The child is a pillar. I don't know what you think?