Communicate with children, using these three methods, children will benefit for life!

In today's families, because children are naughty, many parents often use a commanding or reprimanding tone when communicating with their children, which will cause the children to be cowardly, fearful, and afraid to take their due responsibilities. Many opportunities will be missed. A psychology professor from Peking University pointed out that when parents communicate with their children, these three methods are often used, and the children will definitely benefit for life:

The first method: respect the child.

Many parents will think that their children are young, and thus ignore their self-esteem. They don't know that many times the method is wrong, which will attack the child's self-esteem, causing the child to have low self-esteem. , You must respect your child, so that the child will build confidence and dare to express his own ideas.

The second method: encourage children.

Because children are relatively young, it is inevitable that they will make some small mistakes in life or learning, and many parents will either scold or scold them for these mistakes. Children cultivated in such an atmosphere will be timid. So when communicating with your child, don't be afraid of making mistakes, but encourage your child more and tell your child that he can do well.

The third method: praise the child.

In fact, in our life, good children are always praised. The more you praise your children, the more capable they are. Many parents, in the process of educating their children, they do not praise their children again. Even if the children do well, they will pretend Zuo didn't see it, or even if they saw it, they perfunctory children, because they were afraid that children would be arrogant and complacent. In fact, in the process of educating children, give children more praise, and children will become better and better.

Every child is a piece of white paper, and parents educate their children by painting on the white paper. What kind of methods parents use in the process of getting along with their children will leave what kind of patterns on the white paper. This is what we often say, what kind of parents will have what kind of children.