How do you view students who are not admitted to high school and go to secondary school?

"I went to a vocational high school."

No one will know how much courage it will take for you to say this in an upright manner.

You never liked wearing a school uniform outside of school, not because it was ugly. Instead, I was afraid that others would see the words "Technical College" on the school uniform. I'm also afraid of a key high school student in school uniform across from you and smile wryly when you take the bus; I'm also afraid of being stared at by the neighbor's name on the school logo on the chest when you take the elevator...

Three years ago today: the day when the high school entrance examination results came out.

Because you are not on the admission line and your family's financial conditions cannot support you to pay for high school.

So you chose secondary school.

But you are not like the rest of the incoming students. From the moment you enroll

You have a belief: I want to take the college entrance examination, I want to go to university, my life is much more than that.

You learned about the various ways for secondary school students to participate in the college entrance examination, and you chose the most suitable college entrance examination for you (attached link). I also planned the study schedule, study plan, study goals, and even thought about getting my undergraduate diploma in high spirits.

But you find that it is too difficult to study seriously in secondary school.

You are like an outlier if you study hard.

The classmates around you are playing games, skipping classes, smoking, drinking and fighting. There are very few people who study like you. You who want to study quietly are out of tune with the so-called "learning atmosphere" around you. You have been ostracized, ridiculed, beaten, belittled. You doubt yourself, are you doing it right?

I have three real-life examples around me that I can share with you.

Don't say their real names, let's call them little A, B, C.

Graduated from secondary school and learned a technology that can eat

Xiao A is a distant cousin of mine, a rural child who did not get into high school with poor grades in junior high school and went to secondary vocational school without money to pay for the loan. I majored in auto repair, because I heard others say that this major will make it easier to find a job in the future. "If you have classes, study hard, if you have skills, study hard, graduate early and make money early." Xiao A often told me this. In addition to helping the family do farm work when he comes home during the holidays, he will also go to work in an auto repair shop in the town. Others hear that they are both majors in auto repair and students, and they are cheap and willing to accept them. In the year about to graduate, the school arranged a graduation internship in a well-known company. He has repaired more cars than other students in one semester during the vacation, so he is also better than others in professional skills and has the opportunity to get employment. After graduation, he worked in the company for more than five years. Now he has opened an auto repair shop by himself, and his business is not bad with excellent technology. Bought a house in the city and settled down, and gave birth to a pair of twins. Thinking about me being urged to get married every day, I really don't know who to envy.

High school busy in love and get married after graduation

Xiao B is a girl and a rural child. She failed the high school entrance examination. Her family arranged for her to study in a secondary vocational school, majoring in nursing. Thinking of finding a job as a nurse after graduating, stability is good. When Xiao B first entered the school, she still did her duty as a student. Later, the female classmates around her began to pay attention to dressing up, and gradually she stopped focusing on her studies. "Have you learned?" she said to herself. Skipping classes, staying home at night, Internet cafes, and drinking are her normal routines. She talked about a boyfriend, a graduate of a foreign school. After graduating in three years, I found a job as a nurse after looking around for connections in my family. After working for three months, Xiao B left the job, too tired. Later, the family asked someone to find her a clerical job. After working for more than half a year, she quit her job because she was bored. Now Xiao B is also married. People from the same village do not have to go to work and play mahjong with their children at home. Now she's only 23 and looks like someone in her 30s.

From secondary school to graduate school, he has always been a very hardworking child

To say who I admire the most. Little C is definitely the first one that comes to my mind. There are many graduate students around, but I think she is the most powerful. From the "bad" learning environment, through hard work to reach the same height as those in the dominant position, this persistence and inner strength are really not many people can achieve. From beginning to end, she had only one firm belief: to go to college. From secondary school to junior college to undergraduate to now preparing for postgraduate exams, only she knows the heart and not easy. When others are watching dramas, she studies; when others skip classes, she studies; when others are chasing variety shows, she studies . Now she is preparing for the postgraduate exam. From 8:00 in the morning to 12:00 in the evening, she soaks in the library every day, "Just stick with this for a while. Every time I can't make it, I will say this to myself." I believe, From secondary school students to graduate students, she will definitely be able to counterattack perfectly, and her life will be more exciting in the future. By the way, now she and her boyfriend are preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination together.

Through the three different and completely different lives of small A, B, and C.

I want to explain that maybe in the traditional view, technical secondary school = low education

But I don't think this affects anything, it affects your attitude towards life and your own position in society.

Every secondary school student, like any teenager, is a young person with countless possibilities for the future.

So kid, you gotta know.

In the more "bad" environment, you can still be firm in your heart to maintain yourself

This inner strength is worthy of admiration.

The learning atmosphere of secondary schools may be far less than that of ordinary schools. A student who often skips classes and fights is an outlier in ordinary schools, but in technical secondary schools, such students account for a large proportion; not missing classes, actively speaking in class, and thinking about reading materials after class, most students should have the state , In secondary schools, such students are very few.

Those who can strengthen their beliefs in the lower-level learning environment and are unshakable should have admiration for such people.

So I admire little C

Believe in yourself, your life is much more than that.

Also know that you are not ignorant, but ignorant of your own abilities.