Be sure to tell your child: If someone hits you, doing so is the best way to deal with it!
Every child is the baby of their parents, the heart and soul of the family, and has been cared for and loved by all elders from the moment of birth. It is no exaggeration to say that elders are eager to give everything they can to their children, which leads to the phenomenon of spoiling children. It is impossible for children to grow up without leaving the family, so elders should also learn correct education. The child, instead of being blindly satisfied, spoils the child blindly, so that the child loses the ability to deal with affairs independently.
With the gradual growth of children, children will meet people of various personalities and ages, most of which are children of the same age, so how to play with peers has become a crucial thing. This not only determines the social ability in the future, but also is related to the conduct of people and things.
It is said that chasing and fighting is inevitable, which will inevitably lead to bumps and bumps, and in the school or the community, there will always be a few "little bullies", and naturally there will be children with weak character and domineering children. Blindly bullying weak children, this is a very bad phenomenon.
Therefore, fights and quarrels between children are just like family affairs, and there are various ways for adults to solve them. Some parents care about each other and insist on arguing for a reason, and then transform the children's problems into A battle between adults. Some parents educate their children to learn to be patient. If you don't provoke others, they won't recruit you. In fact, two kinds of parents' practices are wrong. On this issue, parents also need to think more about how to properly educate their children.
Contradictions between children are not retribution for grievances. This will lead to direct conflicts between children and their parents, which will only allow children to learn bad habits from their parents. But who has ever thought that an ordinary little quarrel between children seems insignificant, but think about it from another perspective, if your beloved thing is robbed in your study and life, you can still act like nothing happened. It is the same? Therefore, a lot of things have to be thought about from the perspective of the child, so that we can solve the problem together.
Although it is said that adults should not interfere too much in the world of children, the necessary education is necessary. After all, children must face this society, but in the face of some unhappiness, there will be some children with more extreme emotions, who will make Some extreme behaviors. Under such circumstances, parents should lead by example, let themselves be a role model for their children, let their children learn from themselves, let them see how they do it, and teach their children how to do it in their words and deeds. How to protect yourself, how to protect yourself. Don't hurt others, don't let yourself hurt, be a principled person.