You have the following behaviors, you are the soft persimmon in everyone's mind, you can pinch how you want

Men, women and children in the workplace, no matter what position you are in, it is estimated that you don’t want to be bullied by others, and even less want to be despised by others, just want to be strong in the eyes of others, but no matter how good your ideas are, In real work, if you dare to express yourself in the following ways, then you are a soft persimmon in the eyes of others, and others dare to pinch you how they want.

You have the following behaviors, you are the soft persimmon in everyone's mind, you can pinch how you want

[1] The language expression is not smooth.

This point is not just that you are not good at speaking, but that your language expression is not clear on the basis of not being good at speaking, or that your language performance is not fluent when you are communicating by voice. In this way, when you communicate with others or argue right and wrong, you will suffer from language losses, and others will dare to seize your expression and use it out of context, and then you will only be bullied.

【2】As a person, you can only say yes, not say no.

In real work, there is another type of person who will not refuse when faced with the arrangement of work and focus by colleagues or bosses, but will only say yes. That is to say, what we often say will only say yes and not say no. In this way, others will dare to pile unimportant work or work that others can't finish on your head. By then, you will not only be half dead tired. , and no one said hello in the end.

You have the following behaviors, you are the soft persimmon in everyone's mind, you can pinch how you want

【3】Being too dead to save face.

Usually we all say "A man lives a face, a tree lives a skin". There is nothing wrong with this sentence, but if you are influenced by this sentence and love your face too much, then whether it is at work or in life, You will see that many times it is because you love face too much that you are unwilling to speak up, or that you are unwilling to care about others. In the end, you are not only deceived and deceived, but in the eyes of others, others will only call you a soft persimmon.

【4】Being soft has no bottom line.

Whether it is in life or in the workplace, there will always be some people who are too strong in dealing with others, and whose style is too domineering. In the face of such people, if you always treat them in a soft-hearted way, you can adapt to them. Then in the process of your contact and communication with him, you will find that he will often assign you, will often order you, and will often accuse you. The culprit of all this is that your heart is too soft.

Summary: In real life, we advocate and advocate that one must be realistic and that one must behave in the world, but when asking ourselves, we must remember that we must learn to say what to say to what kind of people, and what to face. The attitude you have to show what kind of character you have. Otherwise, as mentioned above, you are a soft persimmon in the standard workplace, and others will pinch you as they want.