Children struggle with work, especially homework. The teacher said that 'roaring' is useless. Parents should learn to do it.

Halfway through the winter vacation, although schools have been delayed due to the epidemic, parents cannot ignore the children's growing study habits. This holiday is a bit long, the primary school students are very relaxed, and it is very difficult to do homework during the winter vacation. Parents basically rely on yelling to ask their children to do homework quickly, but the symptoms are not cured. What are the reasons?

1. Lack of self-control, that is to say, the concentration is not strong enough, and it is easily disturbed by external factors. The main manifestations of children are: inattentiveness in class, love to be distracted, slow homework, fast writing and many mistakes in cursive writing, I will not wait for this. In fact, many children will encounter the above problems more or less, especially the children who have just started primary school. So as parents, we should pay attention to these problems, find out the reasons in time to help children progress, and form a good habit. The main reason for the lack of self-control is that the child has not established clear learning goals and lacks learning perseverance. Parents can try the following methods.

(1) As parents, we must first create a good learning atmosphere for our children and have a sense of ritual.

Family members do not require children to do homework for a long time, study at a fixed time every day, do not disturb children at will, learn to accompany them correctly, and encourage children to complete homework and learning content efficiently.

(2) Give the child the appropriate goal, take incentive measures, and improve attention. Adults should have goals, not to mention children, without a compass in their hearts, where will they remember what they need to do, and the same is true for children's learning. Only with goals can children's learning and life have a direction to move forward.

(3) Set an example for children, guide and educate children to learn from people with correct learning goals and strong perseverance

2. There is no concept of time, and there is no binding force on oneself. It is said that "the act of sowing is the habit of harvesting, the habit of sowing is the habit of harvesting, and the habit of sowing is the harvest of destiny". Lower grades are a critical period for the formation of good habits. Therefore, we must grasp this critical period, so how can we cultivate students' time concept? ?

(1) Make a timetable, which must be completed in consultation with the child. Talk to your child about the amount of homework each day in advance, and discuss the time for homework and recreation. For example, from 8:00 to 10:00 in the morning, it is the prime time for homework to be clear-headed and energetic. From 6:00 to 10:00 in the evening, it is not conducive to memory, and math problems can be arranged. In this way, children will have a certain sense of urgency, and at the same time, they will have their own time to play, which will strengthen their attention and significantly improve their efficiency. Make a schedule, it is best to prepare an alarm clock for your child, you can set different time periods to remind your child what to do.

(2) Pay attention to maintaining a good learning environment for children. Children's desks should be cleaned up, books and school supplies should be neatly placed, and there should be no excessive noise in the home, so that parents do not have to accompany them to study. If there are any questions, let the children think about them first, and then parents will teach them at the end. , Don't let children feel dependent on parents when doing homework.

(3) To achieve clear rewards and punishments. According to the schedule, parents must give affirmations and rewards to the children when they complete them effectively, mainly spiritual rewards, and material rewards can be accumulated. On the contrary, a certain punishment is given.

(4) Allow children to have free time. Children themselves need a lot of time to play, imagine and create. We must give children the time they have to manage after completing their learning goals. After developing such a habit, children will quickly complete the homework or learning content, so as not to procrastinate and improve learning efficiency.

Written at the end, dawdling is the nature of children, and method education is the responsibility of parents. Parents are good teachers and friends for their children. The best education is companionship, the best companionship is reading, and the best reading is persistence. Sukhomlinsky said: "When a child reaches the third grade, he can't read and think while writing, and I'm afraid it will be difficult for him to successfully complete his studies."