'I don't know happiness when I live in happiness! ' Key high school students are late every day and are persuaded to transfer schools to take the blame

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Some parents posted: "The child is studying in a key high school, and because he is late every day, the head teacher often asks the parents to persuade them to transfer to another school. What should I do?

How fortunate it is that the child is enrolled in a key high school! How many children look forward to stepping on such a platform, but for various reasons they can't get their wish. After being rejected, they can only envy, jealous and hate.

However, the subject's child does not know how to be blessed and does not know how to cherish it at all. He is late every day, so that the head teacher often finds his parents and persuades him to transfer to another school many times. On the surface, this seems to be a child's problem. Maybe it's arrogance and indulgence, maybe it's laziness, maybe it's rebellious, maybe it's because of nature, but the root cause lies in the parents!

First, the acquiescence of parents indulges children's bad habits. If a child is late for the first time, the parents will intervene in time, forbid him to violate the school rules again, and stop him from continuing to procrastinate by calling or sending the child to school. How can he be late again and again or even every day? The parent's indifferent attitude dispels the child's awe, so he will act so recklessly!

Second, parents do not have a sense of rules and discipline in their hearts. Parents don't take it seriously when their children are late. In the minds of parents, as long as the child has good grades, he will do everything right, and being late is not worth mentioning at all. But the school is a place with rules, and no one has the right to break the rules! If this behavior of ignoring school discipline and school rules is not punished, it will create a window-breaking effect in school management, and everyone will follow suit. How can this be?

Third, parents lack basic cognitive level. First of all, parents have no concept of right and wrong, don't know what is right and wrong, children are late every day, and parents don't care about an obvious mistake; second, parents have no sense of shame, the teacher has interviewed him many times, but he does not think Shame, it is unreasonable to even come to the world online! The most important thing is that he has no plans to change. After the teacher talked to him about the matter, he still ignored it, let the child go his own way, and often persuaded him to transfer, he was still as stable as Mount Tai. Speaking of this matter is also an understatement, it is really big and boundless!

In my opinion, the school should not be polite to them any more. A high school student, who has been taught repeatedly, is addicted to violating discipline, and still does not persuade or fire him for keeping him? Even if he is the capital of Tsinghua University and the talent of Peking University, staying in the school is a black sheep! The glory he brings is far less than the negative impact he causes! Moreover, this kind of disregard for discipline and completely incapable of self-discipline is still a big question mark. What's more, there are such ignorant and ignorant and confused parents behind him to fuel the flames!

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