Why is everyone avoiding me in the workplace? Recognize these 3 points well, and no longer 'be a good teacher'

01 "Be a good teacher", let the public stay away from me?

Are you often shunned by others for being a good teacher?

Are you often confused and confused because I was originally well-intentioned, but I was misunderstood by everyone and felt wronged?

Have you never thought that it was your own problem, but just blindly passed the blame to the other party, so you never admitted your fault?

If you have the above concerns, it means that you have not realized that you have gone a long way on the wrong path of "being a good teacher". A good teacher, we don’t usually realize how serious a mistake this is. We only know that it is a derogatory term, but if you study it carefully, you will find that not paying attention to these four words will bring a lot of trouble to your workplace.

Why is everyone avoiding me in the workplace? Recognize these 3 points well, and no longer "be a good teacher"

02 Which three points make you "good teacher"?

So let's analyze what character flaws good teachers have?

1. Blind confidence.

Dare to point fingers at others, affirm that you feel good about yourself, feel that others are not as good as you, or are not as good as you in some aspects, so you dare to point out other people's problems. So this kind of blind confidence can make you lose sight of the essence of things. If you are really good in all aspects, you don't have to judge others, and others will humble and work hard to learn from you. If you are half a bottle of vinegar and feel good about yourself, then what you do will only arouse disdain from others. If you feel that you don’t know how to weigh yourself, what qualifications do you have to judge others arbitrarily?

2, arrogant attitude.

Maybe you don't realize that your attitude is inappropriate, you feel like you are preaching to the other person in an approachable, even particularly cordial manner, or just commenting and guiding the other person, but It is precisely your over-humility and kindness towards the subordinate, the superior, the person and the matter that makes you appear more arrogant and arrogant.

Because you have already considered yourself to be better than others in your bones, and you use the attitude of elders to juniors, superiors to inferiors, and excellent to poor students to teach others, no matter whether you are really better than others, as long as you use this kind of attitude To communicate with each other in an unequal way of dialogue, the other party will definitely contradict you at the first time, will not accept any of your views, and question your character!

3 Refuse to introspect.

People who are good teachers are often unaware of their own mistakes. They often live in their own world, constantly looking for the mistakes of others. There is a saying "Do not do to others what you don't want to do to yourself", and there is a saying "If you look at the problem from a different angle, it may be another village." Because those of us who are good teachers always like to stand on our own point of view, and we look at others from the perspective of our own superiority, so we can never see the advantages of others, and we can only see that others are not as good as ourselves in some aspects.

And he refuses to introspect himself even more, because he has put himself in a position that is better than others in all aspects at the first time, and he will not think that he will make any mistakes. In addition, this kind of person, even if he realizes that he is wrong, will not take the responsibility for the mistake, but will only find a way to pass the buck to the other party. Because they do not subconsciously think that they are wrong, even if they are wrong, it is all caused by the other party. Because their ridiculous self-esteem tells them to always refuse to apologize and admit mistakes to those who are inferior to them.

Why is everyone avoiding me in the workplace? Recognize these 3 points well, and no longer "be a good teacher"

03 "Recognize yourself, correct attitude, have the courage to admit mistakes" 3 points, let the public in the workplace accept your kindness!

Knowing the above 3 points, do you feel suddenly enlightened?

Have you finally realized how serious the consequences of being a good teacher can be?

Maybe you didn't do it intentionally, or even out of kindness to be good for others, but you do have various problems of being a good teacher, so please review yourself as soon as possible. Have you ever been a good teacher in your normal work life or daily work? Have you ever pointed at others at will, have you communicated with them from an unequal perspective, or have you made mistakes without apologizing to them?

Learn to review yourself. If you do make some of the above mistakes, please correct yourself as soon as possible.

Learn to review yourself, summarize yourself, examine yourself, and correct yourself, you will find a different self, and you will welcome a more and more excellent and perfect self. Come on, professionals!