The first factor that destroys a child is not beating and scolding and divorce, but the action of the parents when they return home!

Everyone should have heard such a story, a little boy asked his father how much money he made in an hour. After getting a reply from his father, the little boy was very happy and took out a small box full of the money he had saved. The little boy said to his father, "The money I saved here should be able to exchange for your one hour's salary. Can you come home early tonight to accompany me to dinner?"

This story actually reflects a current social phenomenon. Many parents neglect their children in order to make money. There are many children who are very obedient when they are young, but become very eccentric when they grow up. Many parents feel that they are neglecting their children's education, but in fact, the number one killer that destroys their children is not beating, scolding or divorce, but the action after returning home.

In modern society, mobile phones are indispensable to everyone. In life, if we want to contact others, we need mobile phones to transfer payments, and we need mobile phones even more. It can be said that the development of mobile phones has promoted the convenience of our lives. But there are good and bad mobile phones. Many parents take out their mobile phones as soon as they get home, sit on the sofa and play with them directly, ignoring their children at all.

Today's children are just growing their bodies, and every child's mind is not yet perfect. What children need is not only the teacher's teaching at school, but also the teaching by words and deeds from their parents. There is an old saying that parents are the best teachers for their children.

For the same two children, if a child lives with his parents for a long time and is accompanied by his parents for a long time, then the child's life path will definitely go more and more smoothly in the future. If the parents of another child have always ignored the child, the child's character will definitely be different from other children in the future, and even extreme.