Parents and teachers torn apart: who cares about my child is restricting the development of personality, the teacher's answer is bright!

Many netizens responded that parents are really reading too many books, and they have seen a lot of chicken soup for the soul, and even said that they have done a lot of research on parenting books. After learning so much knowledge, it is natural to place too many expectations on teachers and schools, so in terms of vocabulary, I also pay attention to it.

Let me show you a long story by a parent of a first-year student. After reading it, you must have a lot to say. In fact, the editor is also worried for the teachers. What should I do when I encounter such a parent? In fact, the matter is very simple, that is, a student is always making trouble in the class, and the teacher has no way to go to class normally, so the teacher punished the naughty student, which resulted in so many rhetoric from the parents.

Teachers tell parents that they punish their children because children are always influencing other peers in the class.

Learn to listen to the class. After the parents know the news, they send a long message, which means that since the child made a mistake in school, he should bear the consequences for his mistake. The school has the rules of the school and the teacher has the system of the teacher, so Punish what should be punished. As parents, we have done our best to provide a good environment, so that they can eat well and dress well. Some minor problems are still unavoidable, so don’t stretch your hands so long and let the children face their own mistakes. , accept the punishment he deserves. In fact, the parents said so much, nothing more than telling the teacher that the child should be punished if he is wrong.

But after the teacher really punished the child, the parents were not reconciled again. They accused the school of accepting such a lovely child, but the school could not give the parents a better child. After all, the child did not have to follow the rules of the school. , students should not be punished by teachers even if they make trouble in the class, because after being punished, it will affect students' creativity. After reading the information replied by the parents, we really have to sigh that too much culture can cause trouble!

There are even many parents who have come up with their own opinions, which means that the school and teachers help them shape their children, not by other disciplines, but let the children be self-disciplined, and don’t let the requirements of teachers and schools become the children’s. It is a rule of thumb, but let the children do it voluntarily and consciously. Although this process is long, the teacher still has to be patient, and whether to use praise to shape them. After seeing such parents, do you feel convinced? I have to admire the parents' knowledge and insight. But the teacher's culture is bigger, the teacher's answer is stronger, and the teacher's message is longer.