In the face of parting, never let go of hurt and feel numb to the habit, has the friendship in the workplace disappeared?

01 Preface

In a few years, I will be forty. As a post-80s generation, I have taken half of my life journey and half of my career journey. Before the age of 40, I want to share with you the personal experience of myself or my relatives and friends who have worked for more than ten years, not only to leave a memory for my life, but also to let more people think about it after seeing it. If it helps your life and saves you from detours, the things I wrote will be of value.

In the face of parting, never let go of hurt and feel numb to the habit, has the friendship in the workplace disappeared?

02 Injury parting

Partings in the workplace are actually commonplace, but for us who have just entered the society and are pure in character, that feeling is sincere and worthy of your unforgettable life. When the author just graduated, he came to the project manager department of the construction unit to repair roads and bridges. For the project department, parting is more commonplace, because basically a project may require changing a group of colleagues, and a project may be as short as one year. , 3 years, 5 years, or even 10 years, there are too many divisions and combinations. But for those of us who have just graduated and are pure in character, we have lived together for two or three years, eating, sleeping and working together on a project. This kind of relationship in the workplace is even more difficult to experience when working in an office building in a big city. , so when we meet parting for the first time, it is inevitable that there will be reluctance, sadness, and tears, because after all, this is the place where we started to shed our blood and sweat with our dreams, and the friendship we build here will be precious...

The following is a statement written by a close friend of mine nine years ago, after working for 3 years, when facing the best colleagues in the workplace for the first time:

In the face of parting, never let go of hurt and feel numb to the habit, has the friendship in the workplace disappeared?

May is a colorful season.

The sun shines on the earth,

There is life everywhere.

No sad raindrops keep falling,

But the moment of separation still makes people feel that the whole sky has become hazy;

Leaves that do not wither fall into the earth with sadness;

But the sadness of parting brings people's thoughts into the whole winter.

From that day we met on this painful and happy construction site,

endure hardship together,

bear the pressure together,

have fun together,

Share your ideals together.

When we stay up all night again and again for work,

We firmly believe that when we achieve our goals, we are one step closer to our dreams;

When we console and encourage after repeated setbacks,

We firmly believe that every failure and setback will enrich our life;

When we share the joy of success after completing tasks again and again,

We tell ourselves: this is just the beginning, and we still have a long way to go.

It is not easy to meet people in life.

It is even more rare to meet at this construction site during the struggle period of life.

So when we are on this site full of memories,

Sharing weal and woe, encouraging each other,

After becoming confidants and friends who cherish each other,

This friendship is worth cherishing for a lifetime.

All good things come to an end,

When we choose this job,

have accepted this reality.

Although the movement of people on projects has become commonplace,

But whenever you really face yourself,

Still burst into tears.

Maybe a temporary goodbye,

Maybe we will meet in many years.

each time,

We all do our best to make each other happy;

leave no regrets.

we believe,

no matter where,

each other will live happily,

Because we are silently blessing in the distance.

If you haven't lived on a construction site,

Maybe you will never understand.

Only on this land,

live and work together,

Chasing dreams together

To build such a close relationship as a brother.

Let us cherish the precious friendship on this construction site,

No matter what the future holds,

This fetter will accompany us on the road for the rest of our lives.