Do you feel lost, flustered or confused when you first enter the workplace? Look up, the sun is right in front of you

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In a few years, I will be forty. As a post-80s generation, I have taken half of my life journey and half of my career journey. Before the age of 40, I want to share with you the personal experience of myself or my relatives and friends who have worked for more than ten years, not only to leave a memory for my life, but also to let more people think about it after seeing it. If it helps your life and saves you from detours, the things I wrote will be of value.

Do you feel lost, flustered or confused when you first enter the workplace? Look up, the sun is right in front of you

Don't panic when you are new to the workplace, your confusion and sadness are only fleeting

The following article is from the personal diary of a novice in the workplace five years ago, Xiao Y, after working for one year, fully writing about the confusion of entering the society after graduation:

It's been a year, it's been a year

Now every day is clear

It should be the date of each day is clearly memorized

It's like I'm not wasting every day

But reality doesn't seem to be so

daily routine life

Doing my own work from unfamiliar to familiar to unfamiliar

Not as exciting and intense as imagined

everything is so quiet

quietly

quietly

The blood is flowing quietly

Agitated impulse from the moment I came out

Peace and tranquility so far

It's like I've been through a century

let yourself into another world

A world I never knew or thought about in the first half of my life

away from family

away from friends

Everyone who used to be together every day

Now living various lives in various places

The world is really amazing

We will still look forward to the future together

Now they are running around for reality

a year ago

Still feeling like a young kid

You can draw your own bright future with any pen

one year later

I feel like I've been through the vicissitudes of life

The non-mainstream on campus has become the object of his own miss but ridicule

As if yesterday's self was still on campus

Sleeping late in class, skipping class, meeting self-study, reading books, drinking, singing, fighting the Three Kingdoms and fighting monsters

I used to hate that city that never saw the sun\

Now I miss the feeling of walking in the drizzle

I had to tell myself

one Year

really a year

I'm still the same me

I am not who I was. . . .

One year after Xiao Y graduated, he entered a state-owned enterprise in the world's top 500. He got the high salary that his classmates envied, and he also got the Beijing hukou that others dreamed of according to his career plan. When you first entered the society, it was already quite good. However, everyone has troubles that others can't see. He envy those students who are still in graduate school in school. He misses campus life and is reluctant to part; Compared to my classmates, it has been a lot lighter. Therefore, he looked back on his life in the past year with a little sadness and a little loss compared to the campus.

However, they do not know that this is what most college students who are new to the workplace will realize. Those with strong adaptability will quickly integrate into the state and enjoy their work; those with less adaptability are like Xiao Y complaining at the age of one, sighing with emotion about life, and it may be worse. Will give up the current job to continue the postgraduate entrance examination, or change to a life that I think is happier.

Do you feel lost, flustered or confused when you first enter the workplace? Look up, the sun is right in front of you

In fact, life is often unhappy, Xiao Y has just stepped into the society, and what greets him is far more complicated than he imagined. At this time, after the emotion is over, I still have to adjust my state and quickly integrate into the work. If you are still unwilling, you can ask your brothers and sisters for consultation, and the direction of your life will be much clearer.

Finally, I would like to tell you that Xiao Y finally adjusted his work status in time and quickly integrated into the working environment. Now he is an excellent old employee who helps other juniors and seniors. And I was the brother he talked to when he was confused. As we grew up together, we saw how each other's precious lives were accumulated step by step.