Colleagues had dinner at AA. I paid 300 for my colleague. I was stunned when I heard my colleague talking in the toilet.
Colleagues had dinner AA, I paid 300 for my colleague, I was stunned when I heard my colleague talking in the bathroom
People’s hearts are unpredictable, and so are the hearts of colleagues in the workplace. Sometimes, it seems that the relationship with colleagues is very good, but in fact no one agrees with the other in private. Sometimes, the relationship with your coworker doesn't seem to be very good, but the other party can help you when you are in a difficult time. Therefore, in many things, you can't just look at the appearance, but look at the essence through the appearance.
Last week, our department organized a dinner for colleagues. Because there are not many opportunities for colleagues to have dinner, they have to participate if there is nothing important. Although it is not a public funded group building, it is an AA gathering for everyone, but it doesn't cost a lot of money to eat a meal, so no one deliberately makes excuses not to participate.
In the past, my colleagues have been to a hot pot restaurant, a barbecue restaurant, and an outdoor barbecue. But today I went to eat mutton soup. Although it is also considered to be eating pot, there is still a difference between eating mutton mutton and eating hot pot.
Of course, drinking mutton is indispensable. Even if female colleagues may not be able to drink alcohol, our male colleagues will definitely want to drink some. However, I didn't drink liquor, so I opened some beers, which was refreshing.
The meal time is not short, some people drink too much and always go to the toilet. When the time was almost up, the waiter came up and asked us to pay the bill. The person in charge of our department paid in advance. After the waiter left, he calculated how much each person had to pay.
It was about 300 per person. After I transferred my share to the person in charge, I found that my colleague Xiali didn't seem to be there. He should have gone to the toilet. So I paid 300 for my colleague Xiao Li. After waiting for a while, no one came back. I just wanted to wash my face in the bathroom.
So I went to the bathroom. When I walked out the door, I suddenly heard my colleague talking: "Hey, why did you stay in the toilet for so long and drink too much? It's not like this all the time." Xiao Li: "Not yet. I want Xiao Wang to help me pay for the dinner."
Xiao Li: "I know that if I'm not here, Xiao Wang will definitely help me pay in advance, and you don't know, he lent me 200 last month, and he hasn't paid it back yet, so let him help me advance and pay the 200 by the way. debt, lest I ask him for it."
After hearing this, I was stunned, and then I suddenly remembered that it was true that I had borrowed 200 yuan from Xiao Li before and hadn't paid it back. Because I usually have a lot of things to do, I forgot about it as soon as I got busy. After thinking about it, I decided to pay back his money first.
- Don’t be too honest with others
In the workplace, we will also encounter colleagues talking about their situation behind their backs. Because the relationship between each other is not bad at ordinary times, and I will help each other a favor, but I didn't expect that the other party would not talk about it face to face, and had to speak badly to others behind their backs.
In fact, for this kind of thing, there is no need to be too serious with the other party. It is one thing to know in your heart, so it is another thing to make trouble with the other party. Because sometimes, although the other party's actions are inappropriate, what they say is more reasonable.
And if you are on the unreasonable side, if you have to be honest with the other party, the people watching will not stand on your side, but will damage your image in the hearts of others.
Second, observe the behavior of colleagues more often
In the workplace, interpersonal relationships are relatively complex, and there are more interest relationships between people. If the interests of the other party are involved, it is inevitable that the other party will make some actions that are not conducive to them, but some people are not this type of people.
Therefore, in peacetime, we should observe the behavior of colleagues more and find out the temperament of others. In order to avoid that in the process of getting along with the other party, because of some untimely actions, the other party will be angry and angry, and damage their own interests.
- People who know how to be grateful are more worthy of deep friendship
Although in the incident of the colleague's dinner, it is still a fact that I borrowed money from my colleague, but it is also a fact that I paid my colleague in advance and helped him. If it's because you didn't pay back the money you borrowed, you can raise it directly, there's no need to do these little things behind your back.
And for helping him, he still doesn't know how to thank him. If so, what's the point of helping him. Therefore, in the workplace, you must know how to make friends with people who are grateful, because such people will not trap you behind your back, bury you, and are more worthy of your deep friendship.