The most hated thing in the workplace: What can you do other than bear with injustice?

Under the 360° lens with no dead ends, the stars who have taken off their success and magnesium light rings turned out to be ordinary people just like us, and they will also encounter all kinds of troubles in the workplace.

Especially Wu Xin, who left a very deep impression on me.

The most hated thing in the workplace: What can you do other than bear with injustice?

In our eyes, as the head of Hunan Satellite TV, although she is not a big hit, she successfully signed the "Happy Camp" in 2006. She has been doing it all the time, and her career is smooth sailing.

However, it is not. She revealed on the show that in her seemingly smooth hosting career, she also suffered unfair treatment in the workplace.

At a New Year's Eve party, the program she had been preparing for a long time was temporarily cancelled by the director team. At that time, there were a total of 10 hosts in the program, but only her program was deleted.

After getting the news, she couldn't control her emotional breakdown and cried bitterly in the background.

There is no reason, yes, no matter how successful you are, even if you are a dazzling star, you will be treated unfairly in the workplace.

Not to mention ordinary people in the workplace like us. How should we deal with unfair treatment in the workplace? This is the question that has always bothered us.

01 The so-called unfairness is only temporary

The program was cut off, which was a fatal blow to Wu Xin, making her feel that she was the worst.

She burst into tears backstage on the spot.

However, Wu Xin did not lose control of her emotions and confused her thoughts. She knew she was hosting the show. So, she wiped away her tears, put away her mood, put on makeup to cover up the tear stains, and continued on stage to host.

There was no colleague to comfort her, and she knew in her heart that there was nothing to console her about.

The most hated thing in the workplace: What can you do other than bear with injustice?

After the events of the show, Wu Xin did not become depressed because of this, but began to examine her own shortcomings and gradually walked out of the quagmire of lack of self-confidence.

In her own words:

"You bury your superiority to the bottom, and then you have another bounce in your life."

In fact, this is a growth mindset.

When we encounter failures and blows, it does not mean that we are useless, and we do not need to be depressed. It just shows that in this challenge, we are not fully prepared, and there are still some shortcomings. Next, you need to keep learning and try to make yourself better.

However, we have always believed that our abilities and intelligence are inherently fixed and will not change. Moreover, from childhood to adulthood, we continue to participate in various challenges and exams, and use the results to verify our ability and intelligence.

The result of this is that once we fail, we will be completely denied and labeled as "stupid kids" or "losers". We were out of breath.

However, when we look at failure with a growth mindset, what we see is this: One failure doesn't mean anything. We need to continue to work hard, constantly summarize, and improve our ability to meet the next challenge.

No one likes being treated unfairly in the workplace. When we are faced with such unhappy or bad things, even if we feel frustrated, we should be prepared to take the risk of temporary failure and face the next challenge head-on. Instead of losing faith and denying yourself.

Treat each injustice as the beginning of the next challenge.

2. Refuse to submit

In the face of unfairness in the workplace, should we resign or fight fiercely for the benefits we deserve?

In many cases, this kind of injustice is decided by the leaders. It is impossible for us, and we do not have the courage and ability to resist the leaders.

This is very confusing.

If we don't resist, we are afraid to leave the impression that the leaders are resigned and pinch soft persimmons. In the future, they will be despised by leaders.

The most hated thing in the workplace: What can you do other than bear with injustice?

However, if we choose to jump up and fight for our own interests, we are afraid that the leader will think that he challenges his authority and that he will be regarded as a glitch in the team. We could end up being kicked out of the team for a reason every now and then.

Let's see how Wu Xin did it?

She did not cry to the director team and asked to resume her program.

On the contrary, she chose to vent her emotions without affecting her work, crying bitterly to let people know her attitude towards the matter from the side.

Even though my show got cut, I'm not without emotion and I don't like being treated that way. Because I value myself and my efforts more. Although I am very sad, I respect the leadership's choice.

At this time, only by showing the attitude of respecting yourself can you gain the respect of others.

So, this time, Wu Xin was invited by the director team of "My Girl". That is, the director group who cut off her show last time.

Today's efforts will one day be rewarded in other forms

3. Don't blame the workplace for being unfair, blame yourself for being too weak

Wu Xin was invited by the director team again. Many people think that it is because the director team feels guilty towards her.

how is this possible?

There is no kindness in the workplace, no charity. It has always been the survival of the fittest, and the weak and cowardly can only be eliminated.

In this battlefield without gunpowder, if we are strong enough, we can have the best resources.

Therefore, only by constantly challenging yourself, conquering yourself, constantly cultivating yourself, and making yourself stronger and better, can injustice become fair.

There is no fairness or unfairness in the rules of workplace survival. The more outstanding people have the right to speak, the more capable people have the opportunity to choose, and the more irreplaceable people are, the more resources they can get.

If you are not strong enough, everything will be in vain; if you are strong, the workplace environment and opportunities will naturally improve.

Over the years, Wu Xin's hard work and continuous growth are obvious to all. From the beginning of the character design of silly white sweet and vase, to the development of diversified and multi-platform, the rising popularity is the best proof.

This is like when we are strong enough, the whole body exudes a dazzling light. At this time, we don't need to ask others, and there will naturally be people who are attracted to us.

Don't rush to deny yourself because of some unfair treatment in the workplace, and blame the boss for the blame. It's better to clean up your mood and find your own position. A momentary injustice does not mean eternal injustice. The injustice suffered today is for the fairness of the future. Our career path is still long.

Only when you are strong can you stand at the top of the workplace pyramid.