'Have the ability, no temper': The more you see in the world, the more low-key you are

Recently, I was hospitalized due to some minor problems. Due to the recent situation, the hospitalization has one more test than the previous procedures. Because the inpatient department is closed, the nucleic acid test of the hospital must be obtained before entering.

Not only those who are hospitalized, but also those who escort them.

It can be said that you can only go in but not go out. If you go out and want to come in again, you need to test again.

Not to mention visiting the sick, even the takeaway or family members who deliver meals can only go to the door, and they have to leave quickly when they put their things in the designated place.

However, there is also an advantage in this way, that is, the hospital is quiet.

I observed it, and the proportion of those who are accompanied by family members is less than one-third.

May be good for patients and their families:

The former has a particularly valid reason not to trouble the family;

There is no need for family members to spend time in the hospital feeling that they have to do something.

With the reduction in the number of people, the hospital environment is naturally quieter.

Back and forth are the voices of doctors, nurses, nurses, or phone calls with family members.

However, for people who can't be idle, the problem is that they have to chat with their patients. In this process, it can be said that the same rice raises the same kind of people.

1. See the best, and don't be happy with things; know the worst, and don't feel sorry for yourself.

There is a question online:

What kind of talent is called the world?

The most upvoted answer is this

I have seen the best, and I am not pleased with things;

Know the worst and don't feel sorry for yourself.

I think this is the so-called world, which refers not to money and status, but to vision and pattern.

Take a simple example.

No. 49 next door and No. 47 on the opposite side are of the same age. They are both retired age and both have a daughter.

Among them, No. 49 is local in Wuhan. He receives a pension of more than 4,000 yuan a month, and has complete social insurance. He is still working outside as a simple temporary worker and receives a salary of more than 3k a month.

On the 47th, there is no pension and no social security. It costs more than 700 yuan to pay commercial insurance every year, so even though I passed the retirement age, I was still thinking about going back to work when I was hospitalized.

However, the two have one characteristic in common

Take every opportunity to show that you know a lot.

Even the matter of cured meat during the Spring Festival was not spared. One said that he bought a lot of different kinds of fish and meat during the Spring Festival. The result was such a good thing, and the family did not appreciate it, so they all gave it away.

As a result, I was scolded back by the aunt in Wuhan on the 49th.

What is herring, it's not delicious at all. We all buy wild boar from where and where we spend thousands of people dragging people...

It's actually quite interesting to think about it. After all, they all went to the hospital and lived in the same ward. They were treated the same way. What's the point of bragging?

2. No matter how good you used to be, are you still sitting with me?

This reminds me of a story I heard before.

I was just graduating at the time, and I asked the brothers to share their experience of looking for a job. One of them said:

Be confident.

It turned out that when he was interviewing a real estate company, the third round of interviews was conducted with all the people who had returned from studying abroad and returned to China. The names of the schools were better than ours, but in the end, 2 people passed this round. Brother is one of them.

He said that the few people who were with him at the time began to show their timidity when introducing themselves, but he said:

What are you afraid of, it doesn't matter which school you come from, you're not sitting with me!

This sentence has given me a lot of encouragement. Every time I face competition and those who are very powerful, I will think of this sentence from my brother:

No matter how good you are, you are not with me, this only shows that I am not bad!

It's not conceit, it's not really telling yourself that you are no different from anyone else. It's the point of view of the problem.

The past has passed, individuals have personal experiences, individuals have personal heights, but at this point in time, we are in one place, and what we have to face is the next place to go.

Since the past cannot be changed, focus on the opportunities in front of you, and don't waste your energy making comparisons that "can't win you a bigger opportunity". In the interviewer's view, this may be just a "can't hold back and love to show off". Lost points.

3. The more you show off something, the more you want it

Du Yuesheng said:

There are three kinds of people in the world,

The first type of person has neither ability nor temper;

The second type of person has both ability and temperament;

The third kind of person has the ability but no temper.

If you often watch gangster movies, you will find that often the real boss is the third type of person here.

This kind of temper, if you can't control it well, will only keep you in trouble, but if you use it well, it can be used as a means.

In contrast, if we start from the perspective of superiority, there may be three kinds of people:

The first type has no past and does not like to discuss;

The second type has some past and likes to show it off;

The third type has some past, but doesn't like to show it off.

Those who have seen the world know that all living beings are suffering.

They have long learned to respect and be equal, and will not deliberately show off and show off, because they know

It is cruel to use one's own sense of superiority to set off the inability of others.

There is also a sentence called:

When a person lacks something, the more attention and talk about what it is.

That's why, there are a lot of really rich people who don't seem to care about money, just like Jack Ma's classic quote:

I am not interested in money.

There are also ridicules on the Internet, what kind of bags are carried by people with income, from intern to director, they are:

Intern-Prada-Gift from Boyfriend

Project Manager - Coach - Large Capacity, Simple, Durable

Director - 20 bucks tote bag

Of course, this is a special case, because the gender of the director here is male, and some people think that there is no comparison.

But generally speaking, an intern who costs 150 yuan a day, even if he carries tens of thousands of genuine products, many may think it is a product; and people with strong aura, such as Gong Li, really go back to buy a street stall, and then be caught by fashion magazines Photographed, thought it was a brand that suddenly burst out.