Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
I wrote about a few women, and the ending was either resignation or dismissal. Some people said that my "Workplace Women's Guide" should be renamed "Workplace Women's Ways to Leave." Sorry, most of the impressive women left because of this. Today, let's change the taste and tell the story of a single working mother.
Every woman has a girl in her heart, and Alian has it too. She is 36 in appearance, but she spends all day in a simple white T-shirt and jeans with a single ponytail, bouncing around, plus two front teeth, just like a jumping little girl rabbit.
With cute and smart eyes, and two deep dimples when she smiles, it may be difficult for everyone to imagine that she is a divorced single mother. Women are inherently weak, and mothers are strong. Yes, she must be strong and must laugh at life.
Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
Why is she pretending to be cute? At this age, he is still crazy all day long, how can there be cuteness at all. Laughing and laughing, his eyes were full of tears, and the crow's feet at the corners of his eyes also spoke unceremoniously, the ruthlessness of the years of carving knives.
At noon one day, she insisted on taking the sisters in the office out, because there was a kind of fruit in the garden behind the office building, which was beautiful. Everyone who had been busy all morning was too sleepy after eating, but she insisted on going and asked one by one. Everyone is looking for a variety of reasons to shirk.
Later, she fell asleep on her desk. A few days later, people still found her stubbornness a little cute, so they decided to go and see the fruit there. She jumped with excitement all the way, and it was hard to associate her with a 36-year-old woman.
Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
For divorced colleagues, people generally do not mention children and husbands in the office, and try not to touch her sadness. A person with mother and child, floating in another unfamiliar city, thinking about it is sad. And she doesn't shy away from talking about children, which sometimes sounds a little distressing.
Once, I found teeth marks on her arm, I asked, what's the matter? She smiled and said that her son bit. I was very surprised, I said you have to teach children not to bite, such a deep tooth mark, how painful! Crimson imprint, really looks scary. Her answer was even more distressing and nearly brought tears to my eyes.
She said that her son bit her to make sure she was there. She woke up in the middle of the night crying, afraid that there would be no family around him, so he grabbed her arm and bit it down. It turned out that he was afraid that his mother would not want him, because his father no longer wanted him. A child who has not yet entered kindergarten, such a small mind, what a great trauma!
Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
This kind of Alian is obviously very bitter, but she laughs the loudest every day. If others kindly help her, she will stubbornly refuse. It seemed that the sympathy of others stung her heart. She seems to be very assertive, and when she kindly reminds her, she usually curls up, revealing sharp thorns that hurt others.
On that day, Xiao Wang at the next table kindly reminded her that the approach of new projects still needs to learn from past experience, not to blindly follow her own ideas. Alian was on fire, stood up and said, she will consider adding new ideas on the basis of the past, don't worry.
Alian is such a person. Maybe life has given her too many hardships and she has forgotten her tenderness, but sometimes she is innocent like a child and insists on seeing the fruit, like trying hard to collect positive energy to resist those grey days. Such A Lian is as bitter as a lotus seed on the inside, but blooms like a white lotus on the outside.
Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
Sympathy can't be eaten. When the leader assigns tasks, she will not give her less. The family affairs of the workplace are unrelated to the company, which is still relatively ruthless.
That morning, with two deep dark circles under her eyes, Alian handed over the report that she had made overnight to the manager. She said that she did it in an Internet cafe last night, and everyone gathered around curiously. Is the computer at home broken? It turned out that it was her son who was pestering her, always distracting her, and the accuracy of the report data was high.
It was late at night, and when I got home, my son was already asleep. Everyone sighed after hearing this, and several mothers were in tears.
The male leader said, "Poor people must have something to hate."
Everyone was silent for a while, not knowing how to answer for a while.
Alian was extremely embarrassed, blushed, and silently returned to her seat. Maybe she's very lost inside, but she doesn't have time to experience grief. She also needs to work hard and carry the weight.
Workplace Women's Guide - Cute and piercing, the heroine torn by grief, Alian
Maybe every woman has her own armor and is stressed in a different way when she encounters a problem.
Good and bad are both gifts given by the years, and the coffin cannot be concluded. What do you think?
Is there a woman around you who is ruthlessly carved by life into a woman whose appearance and heart are divided?