International students insult their fathers because of insufficient living expenses, and family relationships cannot be maintained by money
Recently, a topic of "international students insulting their fathers because of insufficient living expenses" has caused widespread discussion. In an exposed chat record, the father and daughter had a dispute over the living expenses of 10,000 yuan. Then the daughter posted abusive content to her father in the chat group, and then the chat record was posted on social platforms. Some netizens expressed anger at the behavior of girls, and some sympathized with girls, thinking that if their family background is not good, they should not be sent to study abroad. Others believe that the girl has such a concept and attitude, and her parents' education also needs to take some responsibility.
Through the chat records between the father and daughter, it is not difficult to see that it is not a matter of one or two days to make trouble like this.
After reading this news, my heart is mixed. The relationship between father and daughter actually depends on money to maintain it. If there is no financial support, will there be no family relationship?
International students insult their fathers because of insufficient living expenses, and family relationships cannot be maintained by money
In this materialistic society, there are fewer and fewer real feelings, and family love gives way to reality. I don’t know what method is appropriate to maintain relationships. I only think that money is omnipotent and money is used to buy it. I really don’t know if this is blasphemy or insult. money? Is it a parent's grief to do this? Or the sorrow of children?
For a long time, I have always believed that family is the least perishable emotion of all relationships. Family love is the blood in the veins, money is just outside the body. When family love encounters money, any kind of scene will happen. It's not the fault of money, it can only be blamed on human nature for not being able to stand the test.
In fact, the most profitable business in the world is to be a child. "Dad" and "Mom" can easily be exchanged for the careful care of two people for your life. Not to mention changing feces and diapers frequently when I was a child, teaching meticulously under the lamp in my childhood, worrying about day and night in my youth, not talking about being warm and loving, and being coquettish on weekdays, just saying that my parents were busy all their lives, and they worked hard to get a little money to live on. , then paid all of them to their children. In this world, is there any more loss-making business than being a parent?
We only have time in this life, and we have no other time but this life. Let us make good use of the time in this life, cherish it well, cherish the parents who are still alive, cherish the partners around us, and cherish the children under our knees, because of them, we can achieve the circle of our life, and only when they are good can life be complete.
International students insult their fathers because of insufficient living expenses, and family relationships cannot be maintained by money
Love is a cycle. Children are filial to their parents, and parents are considerate of their children. The expression of family affection should also be appropriate, and should not make the other party feel heavy and uncomfortable. Parents want their children to go home often, and children want to have a relaxing holiday, then think in a different position. Consider more for the other party, and change to a compromise plan, which can also satisfy the spiritual and emotional comfort.
As children, we make video calls to our parents every week to chat about our daily routines; we usually take pictures of interesting things on the way to work in the early morning and send them home; when shopping online, we brush up on the little things that we liked as a child and send them to our parents to see; Take care of their health, inquire about their new things, talk about their little days; make a bowl of longevity noodles for parents’ birthdays, and add some small surprises; finally, the whole family is there, then take a family photo...
As parents, we can only cherish every day we spend with our children, cultivate this family relationship, give them enough patience and enough freedom, and compose a warm and loving background for their life, so that their body and mind can be comforted. Healthy growth, only in this way, is the best love for them.
The blood is thicker than water between parents and children, as long as they have the heart, the other party can feel it. This is a magical telepathy. As long as we are pious and willing to pay, we can handle everything well, not just money.
Parents and children are the fate of life. Life is short, and it should be done and cherished.