Failed to change careers because you don't know this skill

A friend of mine was dissatisfied with his job and wanted to switch to new media, but he had no experience, so he asked his parents.

His parents have been engaged in traditional industries all their lives and do not understand new media at all. Therefore, they feel that this is too risky and firmly oppose:

It's a pity to give up the major that I have studied for 5 years

A relative who studied your major has already bought a house and a car

It takes a lot of time to change careers, and it takes 3 years to be poor

……

My friend was already debating whether to transfer or not. Hearing what my parents said and thinking about my current situation, I became even more confused: Change careers, I have no experience now; don’t, I won’t improve by doing a job I don’t like. possible.

Failed to change careers because you don't know this skill

In my opinion, his entanglement stemmed from finding the wrong person for consultation. He should not consult parents who do not know much about the industry, but should consult seniors in related industries, so that the advice obtained will be more accurate. Most people who are not in this industry, especially the relatives around you, will advise you to put safety first and not change careers easily, otherwise, you will regret it at that time.

This friend's parents are obviously like this. Although their words seem reasonable, they are not impeccable. For example, it is a pity to give up after studying a major for 5 years. In the long river, what is it, do you have to wrong yourself for the rest of your life for those 5 years?

Secondly, a relative who studied this major has already bought a house and a car. Maybe that relative really likes this major, so he is engaged in this industry, or he is a second-generation rich man and has no shortage of money... In short, there are many factors, most of the time we only After seeing the results, without analyzing the reasons, it is easy to make judgments, which has no guiding effect on others or yourself!

Third, interlacing is like a mountain, changing careers for three years, this was indeed correct in the past, but in today's Internet, it is no longer applicable. Because the Internet has broken the boundaries of many industries, if you want to learn knowledge in a certain field, you can learn relevant knowledge and experience online, get started quickly, and then find a way to enter that environment, you will be able to quickly improve. How many years of effort are required.

Failed to change careers because you don't know this skill

Therefore, we need to find people to consult, and we have to find excellent people in related industries to consult, and these people are positive, positive and persistent people, they will give you positive feedback, otherwise, encountering Those who are negative, negative and give up, your enthusiasm will be smothered by them, there is still hope, after listening to them, you give up before you try.

Isn't the reason why we people want to change careers because we have higher expectations for our own life?

Only by finding the right person to consult, can we increase the hope of our life, and then try more. And many things are experimental, whether it is a career change or other, it is the same, try a few more times, maybe it will be done.

May we all be able to do the work we love.