Why can't you make money? Poor thinking is the key, reject poor thinking, embrace wealth
Poverty is not scary, what is scary is poor thinking.
There are always some people in life who really want to make money, but they just don’t have the energy to act.
A few days ago, college classmates got together. During dinner, everyone chatted about their work and income status. There was a classmate who played well in college and said that he was still working in a small county. With social security, I paid about 3300.
There are daily household expenses, plus some personal expenses, and I can't save money after a month.
Usually, the food you buy in the supermarket is relatively cheap, not to mention the daily skin care products, that is, you have to wait for the discount to buy it.
Isn't that the case with most people? If you want to make money, you just don't want to change.
Isn't this just saying nakedly: Although I am poor, I think beautifully, how can there be a pie in the sky?
In fact, the poorer people are, the more content they are with the status quo and the more afraid of change. The richer people are, the more willing they are to learn and make breakthroughs.
- What are the main characteristics of the psychology of the poor?
1: I don’t know where I am, I don’t know what I can do
It's better to plan your career based on your strengths and take action than to rush into it and find out you can't do it.
2: Learned helplessness, habit of giving up easily
These types of people usually lack problem-solving skills and are not fit in name, but are actually trying to avoid problems.
I lack the courage and ability to solve problems. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I will only use job-hopping to escape, but escaping cannot solve the problem, and I will become addicted.
Do you sometimes feel that you have encountered problems that cannot be solved, and want to leave your job? However, how can you guarantee that your next job will not be challenging?
Why can't you make money? Poor thinking is the key, reject poor thinking, embrace wealth
Second, how to change thinking?
- Get out of victim mode and find what you are good at exploiting
Victim mode is when you encounter something painful or hard to let go and tell yourself it's not my responsibility, it's all going to the outside world (society, family, colleagues) and there is nothing I can do but complain , I am a victim.
Let's take a look at how "victim mode" works: "victim mode" people, who often complain about problems, throw problems to the outside world, are always someone else's problem, are victims, and are fine.
If any behavior is not having the desired effect, you should reflect on yourself and ask yourself if there is anything you need to improve.
Instead, the victim mentality becomes the dominant, wealthy mentality. Tell yourself: I can fix this no matter what, and if I want to, I have better options.
When your mind shift is complete, you'll gain: discovering new possibilities, introspecting, feeling like you're coping, motivated to try.
2: Increase the value of labor and continuously accumulate the dividends of knowledge, ability, and assets
As ordinary people, if you want to increase your income quickly, you must ensure that the proportion of asset income in total income continues to increase without reducing labor income.
Using the dividends of our accumulated knowledge, abilities and assets, we can make money faster than most and then slowly work our way up.
The change in the relationship between demand and supply determines the value of labor. Even if there is such a demand in the market, the substitutability of labor is too strong, and the market supply exceeds demand. This also means that if you don’t do it, someone else will do it. Also still low.
And what we need is to find the market demand outweighs the supply, and at the same time, substitute skills and weaker skills and jobs. Use multiple knowledge combinations to increase the scarcity of skills, thereby reducing the likelihood of being replaced.
In fact, many people are defeated by poor people's thinking. Rich people are always looking for ideas and solutions to problems. The poor always find reasons for their failures and excuses for being a tortoise. So the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. This kind of poverty is not only about money and material things, but also about inner temperament and ideas.