How to achieve efficient social interaction in the wine bureau, clarify these three principles, and easily cope with various occasions
Wine culture is extensive and profound, and in today's rapidly developing society, wine table culture occupies an important position. If you don’t understand the wine table culture and don’t know the toast words on the wine table, it will not only make the atmosphere of the scene awkward, but also destroy the relationship between people, let alone achieve efficient social interaction. Some people think that drinking is just a form, and it is enough to be happy. Others don’t pay much attention to it. In fact, if you want to be active at the wine party, you must start with speaking.
Today, I will teach you these tricks, and you will be able to play the wine game if you learn it!
- You can't talk nonsense, you can drink more wine
The purpose of drinking with coworkers is to relieve boredom at work, so you can relax as much as you can, and if you're not drunk, drink more, but talk less! It’s easy to tell the truth after drinking, and it’s easy to be catalyzed by the alcohol in the wine to make you want to express your daily dissatisfaction with your work, leadership, or colleagues.
After drinking, remember not to talk about other people's private affairs, but to make some harmless jokes, which can adjust the atmosphere of the wine party, your colleagues will also find you very interesting, and it is easy to deepen the good impression of the leaders on you, so prevent yourself Say the wrong thing.
- Don't persuade you to drink too much
You can drink more, but not indiscriminately! In particular, don't persuade your colleagues or unacquainted people to drink alcohol, thinking that this is expanding your circle of friends, but actually making others think that you have no principles.
Either a drink or a friend or a brother. Drinking sometimes makes mistakes. Alcohol will make your brain unclear. It is easy to make a fuss and boast in front of others. You will even agree to other people’s requests casually. Influence your impression in the minds of leaders.
- Watch the words and see the timing
Don't repeat the joke, watch your colleagues' faces when you're talking about it, and if they show signs of laziness and boredom, close your thread ASAP! Try to listen to what others have to say at the wine table. If you have to speak for yourself, give others a chance to speak.
When you feel that you can no longer drink, you can ask your friends to call you or send you WeChat, and then explain the reason to the leader, express your apology, and toast everyone and leave early.
When you drink to the limit, don't insist on drinking it. It is easy to say the wrong thing and offend the leader. As a professional, drinking has the ultimate purpose of finding people you can tap into, so don't get drunk and take this opportunity.
We often say that being gregarious wastes a lot of time, giving up opportunities to grow on your own, especially dinner parties that take the most time. But in my opinion, being alone is what everyone needs every day, but also needs to be social. Because one person goes fast, and a team goes far.
In the group discussion process, you can learn the strengths of others and also get some useful information.
The question is how do we translate the social waste problem into effective social interaction and maximize the use of potluck to expand our network. Next, there are three small methods to share with you.
- Participate in more parties and social activities
At the beginning, I was very afraid to go to parties, because going to parties is a waste of time for self-development, but after I went to parties, I changed my view. It’s okay to grow by yourself, but you can’t do without socializing. For example, this time I I met an elder sister at the party. She is a nutritionist. She told us a lot of health care content, which benefited us a lot, and I shared with her about my work. We chatted happily and gained a lot from each other. good information.
- Add contact information
Add each other as friends for future contact, and tag each of them like occupation, gender, age, etc. Finally, you have to talk about the value you can provide, because people are mutual, you consider their value when you make friends with them, and they are too, so you must reflect your own value before adding contact information, you Get efficient people.
- Don’t be afraid to disturb them
Human relationships are deepened by helping each other. I owe you a favor. The next time you ask me for help, I will pay it back. This is the way to maintain our relationship.