How do you choose between love and work?

——Workplace job search case 2

Lili is a college student who is about to graduate. She received a call from her father and learned that the county high school was recruiting teachers. She learned that her boyfriend was also leaving the city. Lili was preparing for the exam, but she was actually struggling. How should I choose between love and work? Let's continue listening to Lili's story.

College couples are separated due to winter and summer vacations, but this is a normal separation. Everyone knows that the relationship is still there. On the one hand, they are posting their own stories, while on the other hand, they are reminiscing about the original daily life and past, and even in this separation The days of life are more able to arouse each other's thoughts, but after graduating from college, college couples are inexplicable pain, college students have never experienced work, when the mentality of putting aside all distracting thoughts and welcoming work swept the campus like a plague, I cried. The sound of separation is even more saddened by the sad memories of "graduation season, parting season".

How do you choose between love and work?

The thesis defense began, and Lili stepped onto the podium, "Hello, teachers! I'm Lili, a graduate of the School of Management Human Resources. My thesis is "On the Contradiction between Workplace People's Emotions and Work"..."

Thesis defense team: "Student Lili, your thesis is very rigorous. From the point of view of the thesis, you pay more attention to the contradiction between emotion and work. Is it possible that emotion can promote the development of work?"

Lili: "Thank you teachers, my dissertation mainly studies the relationship between personal emotions and work. Personal emotions affirm that there is a contradiction between work and social emotions. Of course, social emotions can promote the development of work."

Thesis defense team: "For example, you have a boyfriend and you love each other, but there is a job opportunity that requires you to separate, how would you choose?"

Lili blushed and said word by word: "When I am not sure whether this relationship can become a family, or if we have to work hard for the family, I will choose to work. This is also the result of my dissertation research."

This is Lili's conclusion, and it is also the choice of Lili and Lin Peng. After Lili completed her thesis defense, she saw Lin Peng's moist eyes, and the two walked out of the defense classroom, "I feel so tormented, even though you love twice as much. Me, I don't feel like we're doomed." Lin Peng held Lili's mouth down to keep her from speaking, and blocked Lili's mouth with his own. Although they were enjoying the beauty of this kind of couple, they felt that each other's saliva was so bitter.

"Trust me, we will be together!" Lin Peng cried even more sadly when he said this, because Lin Peng knew deeply that we love each other, but I can't solve Lili's work problems, love A person should give happiness to another person, and he doesn't know how to work or how to use the responsibility of a man to let Lili enjoy a good life.

How do you choose between love and work?

"Will Lin Peng marry me?" Lili always believed that Lin Peng would marry her, but Lili is now shaken, because Lin Peng is in Shenzhen after graduation, and she is in her hometown. How is that possible? Even if he gave up everything to go to Shenzhen, not only would his parents disagree, but whether Lin Peng could support himself was still a problem. When Lili was in great pain, she confided to her mother the relationship she had concealed for two years, and her mother told Lili: "Now it's not a question of whether you can continue, but you need to find a job first, and the relationship should take its course. , do not do anything deliberately.

"Lili, I heard your mother say that you are in love, it's a good thing, I'm very happy, me, your aunt, your parents are all old, don't think too much about falling in love, just come back when you want to come back to work, Shenzhen has a chance You can also go, and you have to work hard for what you believe in!" Lili was very happy to hear her uncle say that. "Back then, my uncle also had a relationship in college, and the relationship was very good. I should have stayed in the provincial capital, but your grandfather insisted on me coming back. Although your aunt was very kind to me, I always felt that something was missing in my heart, and I Those classmates who insist on love, they are very happy, work hard for love, and don't let regrets accompany them."

How do you choose between love and work?

Lili always thought at that time that she was an only child and would definitely return to her parents. I didn't expect that her uncle and her parents' attitude was to do whatever she was happy, but she found that his love with Lin Peng was pure, but how to Working together is a big problem.

At the graduation dinner, the counselor walked up to Lili after saying the words of blessing and said, "You and Lin Peng have to work hard, I'm very optimistic about you!" and left the dinner party. "Invite our love expert Lin Peng and the staff of the human resources department of a famous listed company to come to the stage!" At the invitation of the monitor, a large group of classmates pulled Lin Peng to the stage with laughter, "Lili, I want to marry you, you wait. Follow me!" Obviously Lin Peng collapsed, Lili went up crying and helped Lin Peng sit at the dining table, the two kissed, and the classmates booed. The sound of crying and drinking mixed together.

Lin Peng left, and Lili also moved back to the dormitory from the house in the urban village, crying and crying. When she saw Lin Peng's message, she felt that there was indeed no separation. Lili also received an interview call and invited Lili to interview. .

"Hello, my name is Lili. I graduated from the University of Science and Technology and participated in many projects in the university..." After Lili introduced herself, the interviewer opened another interviewer and said, "Lili, your image I approve of your speaking and ability, I am the chairman of this company, and seeing you throw the rubbish on the ground into the trash can shows that you are a very responsible person!" Lili, who was looking at you while speaking , "Thank you!" Lili looked at the bloated middle-aged man, paying attention to such small things, and felt that she was too smooth. It turned out that the interview was so simple. "Do you have a boyfriend?" the chairman asked. "Yes," Lili replied! "College love usually ends after graduation. I was abandoned after college. My first love depends on my own efforts. Now it's very hard. No one can help you think about the house. Can you buy it with your hard work? Really? You girls, don’t be so bitter? I think you are not bad. I have a house in the community next to the Entrepreneurial Building. Where can you live, you don’t have to go to work, and you can be my life secretary! Don’t be in a hurry to give The answer, you can just return my message when the time comes?"

Case study: In life, we always think that we understand everything, but it’s not like that. There are many scenarios in life where we choose between love and work, but most of them are not firm and can’t handle it. way together. Love itself is a kind of selflessness and dedication, and short-term dedication is not the sacrifice of all. But there is a major question is "Can we have confidence in each other!"