How do poor people become rich? If you don't get rid of these 3 kinds of 'poor thinking', it will be difficult for you to make money
I once watched a TV show. The hero in the play used to be a rich man, and it was because of his wealth that thieves targeted him. One night, his home was ransacked and all his savings were gone. Before he left with his family, he said to his former servant, "I will definitely come back later. Although I have lost all my possessions now, I still know how to make money." In the end, he returned with more wealth than before. .
Even people on the same starting line will have different ideas and lead to different results. Because what really determines the gap between rich and poor is thinking. You can't make money, first of all, because you're stuck in "bad thinking"
The psychology of scarcity
The more people lack, the more they care. What you're missing will keep your subconscious firmly in your mind, changing the way you think and causing an imbalance between cognition and control.
The neighbor's aunt Xie is like this. Because her family's economic situation is not very good, she likes all kinds of comparisons when shopping for vegetables. Every time she goes to the supermarket, she has to go to the supermarket to have a look. Not only was this a waste of time, but after deducting the fare, she still had an extra piece.
Another example: You want to find a good job that suits you. You don't want to take a detour, but you're short of money, so you give up looking for a suitable job. You can find any job. While this job is not for you, it can relieve your immediate needs. In fact, you have entered a vicious circle.
The "psychology of scarcity" can seriously affect your cognitive abilities, so that you can only see a small amount of income in front of you, so you lose a lot of income because of less income.
- Wasting time to save money
The biggest difference between the rich and the poor is that the poor tend to care more about money, while the rich care more about time.
For example, if a friend recommends you a book, you always want to know if there is a free resource. As a result, you searched all the major websites, online disks and repositories, but none of them, or you managed to find a pirated version. After two days of reading, you realize that you still want to buy it. As a result, you still spent 30 yuan to buy it.
For another example, if a person buys a bad movie ticket, the rich will choose to give up, because continuing to watch the movie is a waste of time; but the poor will insist on watching, although it is bad, but it will cost money. Remember, don't waste time saving money, because your time is your most valuable asset.
Remember, your money is worthless, but your time is the most precious. Time can be exchanged for knowledge, relationships and money.
- Feeling that everyone wants to hurt themselves
A characteristic of poor minds is that they choose not to understand what they cannot understand, and they protect their brains with delusions of persecution. If you let him do traditional business, he says the profit is low; if you let him do the Internet, he says he can't do it; if you have freedom, he says you're a liar; if you charge, he says you just want to earn his money.
The idea of the poor is that my poverty is not my fault, but is determined by the conditions of a third party. When others succeed, their jealousy will make them laugh at you. If they don't make money, they blame society for injustice. Everyone has difficulties in life. We cannot change the objective environment, but we can change ourselves.