Overseas masters posted monthly salary, but female graduate students complained about low income and poor conditions, netizens: dissatisfied

Recently, in the workplace forum, the author saw such an interesting case. An overseas master student now has an annual salary of 300,000, but because he has no house or car in a first-tier city, a female graduate student complained that his income was too low. The conditions are relatively poor, and many netizens feel that the graduate student thinks too much after seeing it, because it is very difficult for young people to buy a house in the city center or the suburbs of first-tier cities, especially those who have just graduated. It is also difficult for college students to get high salaries in the company.

Although many friends or netizens around him were advising the graduate student not to miss this village, the graduate student still did not lower his conditions and always felt that he could find a marriage partner with better family conditions.

the author thinks:

First, the conditions are too high

This graduate student did have some conditions that were too high, because he had no alternatives, and he made outrageous conditions when choosing a marriage partner, which could not meet the psychological standards of others. Female graduate students may not have high salaries and are not well-prepared, so when time and energy allow, they start to reject others frequently, and over time, they will definitely fail to impress others on blind dates. Because if you are always unable to lower the conditions and are unwilling to pay attention to others, you will not get the support of others when you are on a blind date or at work.

Second, there is no need to embarrass each other

The author also suggests that this graduate student should negotiate with his friends or family members, so that he can understand his strengths or weaknesses. Maybe when he first started dating, he had certain advantages and confidence through age or education. When you get along with others, you get their support, but when you communicate or communicate with each other, if your performance is too strong, you start to embarrass others, and put others into a dilemma, then even if the other party’s ability to bear is strong, it will I won’t promise to be with you, because many young people now pay special attention to freedom and individuality, and they don’t want to be bound by some material conditions, and after a blind date, everyone needs to fall in love and get married to get along with each other, and they definitely need to think in each other’s shoes. , so as to have a more stable quality of life.

Third, mature and stable

If young people always have bad relations with each other in order to satisfy their own conditions and personality, then over time you will find that you may be abandoned by each other at any time, and your family and friends will not understand you, because your opinion is in At work, or in life, your thoughts and your actions are always swayed, and your attitude and personality, whether at work or in marriage, will make others unhappy.

Therefore, young people must be more mature and stable when dealing with others. Never start making things difficult for others because of personal preferences. Your performance is unpleasant in the eyes of others.