When a person reaches middle age, he does not lose his ambitions when he is frustrated, he does not lose three faces, and he does not worship three people.
When a person reaches middle age, no matter how frustrated he is in the workplace, there is no need for a tiger to fall, a phoenix who is bullied by a dog, and a phoenix that loses its hair. It is not as self-pity and self-pity as a chicken. If you want to go well, you must do not lose face, do not worship three people, and be yourself.
【1】Do not lose the face of society. Middle-aged in the workplace, if you are still crowding the bus to and from get off work, don't dislike today's young people. It is polite to give up your seat to you. Young people who give up their seats, maybe young people are tired from working all day. When a person reaches middle age, he can't be shameless, nagging or even swearing at each other. Just stand when you are standing, just exercise your body.
【2】Do not lose your professional face. Middle-aged people in the workplace are the backbone of the business. They can't just be disheartened and give up because they can't get promoted. If the conference does not speak, the small conference does not speak, the prostate is inflamed; the work is not outstanding, the performance is not outstanding, and the intervertebral disc is herniated. Lying in the office at noon and unable to fall asleep, sitting in a meeting and dozing off in the afternoon, others are embarrassed to call you, and you have no idea how bad your image is. In particular, don't deliberately find fault, don't talk at the meeting, talk nonsense after the meeting, always feel that fate is unfair and bad luck. Even if your fate is unfair, can you change your fate? It is better to go with the flow, do your job well, play a key role, and help young people more, maybe people will respect you in the future.
When a person reaches middle age, he does not lose his ambitions when he is frustrated, he does not lose three faces, and he does not worship three people.
【3】Do not lose the face of the image. Middle-aged in the workplace, you can't lose your ambitions when you are frustrated, you can't be like a mother-in-law like Xianglin's wife, you don't pay attention to work, and you can count on what you do. Whoever criticizes you for being anxious is just to vent your dissatisfaction with the workplace. Middle-aged people in the workplace are most afraid of broken jars. They don't want anything good, they become a thorn in the unit, and they become a jerk in everyone's eyes. I don’t usually pay attention to exercising, not to mention unhealthy, but say that my body is bloated, sloppy, and procrastinated, which affects the image of the unit. Middle-aged in the workplace is the golden age of work, and it is the season of middle-aged charm. If you are frustrated in the workplace, you cannot fail in an all-round way. You must exercise, keep your body in shape, dress cleanly and neatly. , at least live for yourself.
【4】Do not worship a friend of the same pity. Middle-aged in the workplace, when frustrated, always hope to get help in the snow, it is easy to get together with people who have the same disease to keep warm, and to get together is to complain about fate and complain about the boss, all of which are negative energy, just to be cheerful, but the actual problem is not solved at all. , but also wasted time and ruined the mood. What's worse is that it is easy to meet friends who are alcoholic and meaty. They often get together to drink and brag. My favorite is to brag about how beautiful they were in the past. A group of people got drunk, which not only ruined their bodies, but also ruined their mood. Come, drink as soon as you come. There is a large group of drinks. There is no one who really helps you. Pity each other with the same disease, only self-pity and self-pity, it is better to cheer up. If you don't make such friends, you can only strengthen the negative energy.
When a person reaches middle age, he does not lose his ambitions when he is frustrated, he does not lose three faces, and he does not worship three people.
【5】Do not worship rich friends. Middle-aged in the workplace, once frustrated, always think of going to a rich friend. If you have to go, you must first analyze the daily performance of the powerful. If they usually look down on the poor, don't ask for humiliation. You think that those contacts that you usually maintain, when you have no value, the contacts are the names of people. He is your friend when you are proud at work, and he does not know you at all when you are unhappy at work. And those old friends and poor friends who don't offer flowers when they are the icing on the cake, and who are destitute and suffering, are the ones you should cherish. With the encouragement of sincere friends, bravely make a comeback and make a comeback.
【6】Do not worship the friend of overheating. Middle-aged in the workplace, limited career space, excess energy, and a lot of social media, this circle, that circle, has unknowingly added a lot. There are always some people who are familiar with you and are so enthusiastic about you, which makes you feel cold in the workplace, and you get warm and warm, and you can't wait to be with strangers. Because of frustration in the workplace, I always want to find comfort in other places. Some people with ulterior motives have also seized this psychology. Those who sell insurance, encourage you to invest in stocks, and introduce financial management are all staring at the money in your pocket. This kind of "friend at first sight" and enthusiastic "friend" still needs to keep a certain distance, and don't be disappointed and lose money again.