There are rules in workplace communication, and co-workers communicate in a measured manner. Four types of people should not make jokes at will.

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Most of people's working days are spent in the unit, and communication with colleagues has become the main content. Since they get along day and night, it doesn't matter if they joke with each other occasionally. Even sometimes the level of jokes is a full reflection of a person's sense of humor.

In some embarrassing situations, innocuous jokes can promote communication and ease tension. But joking should also be divided into people and occasions. Not everyone is suitable as a joke object, and not everyone can easily joke. It is too much. There are four kinds of people who should not or should be joking with them carefully:

The first: older colleagues

For an older colleague, because many people do not fully grasp his character, and older colleagues generally have a lot of work, their hearts are more calm, and they do not like people who are too floating. If you don't understand your temper and make fun of him if you don't have a deep relationship, he will think it's contempt and disrespect for himself, and he will be very disgusted in his heart. If some people joke with him, he will even show his seniority and criticize education. So unless you are very familiar, generally try not to joke with older colleagues.

The second: female colleagues

Respecting female colleagues is a basic norm in the workplace. Joke with a female colleague, be very careful, unless you know each other and have worked together for a long time, don't make jokes lightly, no matter if she is young or old. Some gay men also like to joke a little bit with color, this situation will make your female colleagues feel that you are frivolous and disrespectful to her, and it will not lead to better results. Therefore, jokes with female colleagues must be cautious and not excessive.

The third type: overly sensitive colleagues

Some people are naturally sensitive, and what others say is easy to lead to themselves, and because of this, they are imaginative. As a result, small things become big things, and simple things become complicated. If you joke with them, if you are not careful, as long as there is any sentence or word that stimulates her sensitive nerves, they will easily turn their face, get angry, or entangle with you. So get along with sensitive people, unless you have the energy to stay with them to the end, generally don't joke with them.

Type 4: Colleagues who are too introverted

There are still some people in the workplace who are more introverted. This kind of person is more thoughtful and does not like to interact with others, and even less like others to make fun of him or disrupt his work rhythm. When you meet this kind of person, don't think about joking with them, let alone attracting them to the object of the joke, because you will soon be confronted with a mix of cold and cold words, and eventually you will be bored. Therefore, dealing with introverted colleagues depends more on long-term contact and "things".

In short, most of the time in the workplace is very boring, and some jokes are played between colleagues in real time, which can adjust the atmosphere, ease the rhythm, and enhance communication. But you must grasp the degree, especially don't "open the door to laughter" with the above four types of colleagues who don't like to joke. If necessary, you should still joke with some cheerful and well-connected people, so as to liven up the atmosphere and make it less prone to emergencies.

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