There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
These 3 signs in your life indicate that your life is going downhill. These three states are all beautiful and comfortable at the beginning, and even feel good about themselves, but in fact, it will make a person gradually become abolished.
There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
The first is to spend a leisurely day with nothing to do.
Some people say: If you want to see whether a person is good, then see what he does in his spare time. In this world, there are people who use the gaps between cars and queues to read, think, and write, and there are people who do nothing and waste time all day long.
Yes, time can be seen. You get what you spend your time on. And doing nothing, wasting time, can only get boredom and emptiness. I have experienced it lately.
I have been training my body for the last month and I have hardly any work. I was very happy at first, and finally I can do nothing, just eat, drink, sleep and sleep. Because I had to lie down often and couldn't do anything, after only ten days, I felt bored and bored. In order not to get bored, I just play with my mobile phone, and I often just lie in bed and brush it for a morning or a whole day. As a result, my heart is even more empty and anxious.
The quickest way to destroy a person is to let him do nothing.
That feeling of being ignorant and doing nothing is really bad. Later, I found that even if I only set aside half an hour every day to read a useful book or do a handicraft, I can a little fight against the sense of unreality and meaninglessness brought about by doing nothing and being addicted to the Internet. Because at least, I did something worthwhile today.
I think I'm not the only one who feels this way.
Although my family said that I was working hard and couldn't be idle. I also know that I am an achievement-motivated person. Only when I have action, work, and output can I have a sense of achievement. The sense of pleasure after completing a task is more advanced than the pleasure brought by swiping mobile phones and playing games. , more durable and more real.
Anyone who has stayed up late at work or worked too hard for a certain goal must know that physical exhaustion does not make people feel depressed or lost. It's anxiety, frustration, idleness and emptiness that really makes people feel like they've hit rock bottom.
There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
The second is to just listen and not act, and stop at knowing.
In an interview with Li Dan, the mentor of the sixth season of "Wonderful Flowers", the host asked him to give advice to young people today. He said that admitting and mentioning is useless, no one will listen, the way to go has to go, and the mistakes have to be made. But when the host asked him if anyone had any advice for him that he found useful.
Li Dan said, there are many. The reason it works is because I put them all into action, so it's useless to just listen, you have to do it. If you follow the chicken soup articles posted in your parents' circle of friends and follow them, you will have a very good life. Really, the key is to still do it.
There is a question on Wukong Q&A: What will happen if I read books after get off work every day, and persist in this for two or three years? The answer is that you may be different and better. It is also possible that nothing will happen.
If you just read books, but don't use what you see, guide and correct actions, then stick to it for two or three years, and you and your life will still be the same. You just know a lot of truth, and then nothing changes.
Indeed, no one will live well just because he has heard many truths. It is better not to waste time listening, seeing, and thinking if you just listen and don’t do it, just watch and don’t do it, just think and don’t do it.
There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
There are 3 traps in life that will make you live worse without knowing it
The third is to be too busy to have time for yourself.
It's not that I have nothing to do, nor that I don't want to do it, but that I'm so busy that I don't have time for myself. Such people have worked very hard, so how can they be abolished?
When Mr. Fan Deng was talking about a certain book, he told a story that left a deep impression on me.
The ward of a hospital is usually full of appointments, but as a result, when there is an emergency, the hospital can only delay some surgical plans. Over time, medical staff often have to work on the operating table at two o'clock in the middle of the night. And most people need a lot of overtime to complete their work, which leads to most people working in an inefficient and high-pressure state, and the work effect can be imagined.
So the hospital hired an outside consultant who came up with an astonishing way to free up an operating room for emergency patients. But this suggestion was strongly opposed by hospitals at first, because they believed that doctors were already busy, and to vacate an operating room was equivalent to giving up precious resources to be idle.
But in fact, this method really works, with a spare operating room, medical staff can handle some urgent cases more effectively, without rescheduling and scheduling, and they work less time, and the operation efficiency is also improved , into a virtuous cycle.
This is actually a metaphor. It tells us that sometimes allowing ourselves to be idle is not as bad as we imagined, and even reaps unexpected benefits.
It's scary if a person is busy all day, spinning like a spinning top, and doesn't have time to think and do something constructive. Many people fall into the "poor and busy" state, and the busier they are, the poorer they become, which is often related to this.
When you are busy, you should allow yourself time to relax, think and reflect, and do things that seem meaningless but more challenging, so as to have greater benefits in life.
