Knowing people: Mature people have already quit the circle of friends
We all like to share the things that happen to us, and we hope to get the attention and love of others, so we will post some interesting things that we think are fun and interesting to the circle of friends.
But in fact, I don’t know if you have noticed a phenomenon. In the group of young people, young and immature children like to post a lot of news. All day long, only a mobile phone can swipe to their liking. If you have a message, you will forward him to the space and news; and for older people, they don't like to post a circle of friends. What is the reason for these two very different results? Quite simply, it is the result of mental influence.
Because of the different minds, I will not waste time on some useless social interactions, and I will be more aware of the preciousness of time; because of the different minds, I understand a lot of things that need to be digested by myself, and will no longer transmit negative emotions. To others; because of different minds, I will pay more attention to my privacy, and I will no longer casually expose my information on social networks, so as not to get myself into trouble. They generally know the following points
01 Quit meaningless socializing
One of the biggest functions of Moments is the social function. We publish news in Moments, and then receive likes and comments from others; when others post news, you like and comment; it is such a simple interactive process that will This interactive process is shown to mutual friends in the circle of friends, showing mutual intimacy, and then we are satisfied. After being satisfied, I swiped and liked the circle of friends again, "You can't miss the news of every friend. If you miss it, you can't give people a like. I brush the circle every day, but I don't like my friends. This behavior seems to imply something. , can't stop, for the number of likes and comments, and to maintain social networking on the Internet, even if it's just the turn of the likes."
Our emotional and social state is amplified by the Internet, and then we get lost in the circle of friends.
People with relatively mature minds know that playing Moments is easy to fall into this kind of entanglement, so they slowly quit Moments.
02 Understand that loneliness is a required course in life
Humans are born alone, and will eventually die alone. For people with a slightly more mature mind, their emotions will gradually develop inward, and they no longer expect redemption from the outside world, they learn to save themselves. Put your joy and grief in your stomach, digest them, and reconcile with yourself. If it will be lonely in the end, it is better to adapt to loneliness earlier.
03 Hide your daily life
Our daily life is part of our privacy, and there is no need for us to reveal some of our habits and personal information to others. A picture can often contain a lot of information. When our photos are displayed to others, they are often dug up, some missing or hidden things. Then, the photo gets caught in the whirlpool of what is being discussed. Many of our preferences, wealth values, home styles, locations, and daily preferences have been seen clean. When we appear in front of the public, we are like a transparent person. They can see clearly what is hidden behind you, and you have been put on a filter since then. This is a very scary thing. If our information is used by people with intentions, it will bring us even more trouble.
