Writing, the best way to grow personally
Recently, I feel that my life has turned over a lot. Although I still have 24 hours a day, I feel that I can accomplish more things and have less negative emotions. I don’t immerse myself in the family and children, and I live a life of grievances and depression. There is no life at all. Self, all my changes start from writing.
Writing, the best way to grow personally
1 Doing the right thing in the right way
Li Xiao once said that if you do the right thing in the right way, you will become excellent. Keep doing the right things in the right way and you will be great.
After graduation, I have a stable job and a comfortable life that devoured my motivation to study and ability to think. After giving birth to my baby, I was emotionally broken by frequent night wakings, and the inability to take care of my child filled me with frustration, and I urgently needed to do something to change my life.
Writing has come into my life. I tried to sign up for several writing classes, but I couldn't stick to it, and the natural effect was not good. Until I saw Tang Xiaoxiao's VIP writing camp recruitment, including basics, stories, reviews, and copywriting, I didn't know that writing courses can be subdivided into so many types. I decisively signed up for the VIP course to start from the basics.
If you want to become an expert in a certain field, you must follow the 10,000-hour rule. The 10,000-hour rule is of course important, but you also need to have scientific theories and methods, and at the same time keep accumulating abilities and experience. The 10,000 hours without summarizing and thinking is meaningless except for wasting time. Many people who use the method taught by the little teacher to write have realized the realization of writing without writing enough 10,000 hours.
In the course, all aspects of writing, from how to write to how to manage time, how to submit manuscripts, etc., are explained in detail. I have found out a writing method that suits me according to my own situation. If I encounter problems, I will go back and listen to the class again. Listening to a course has a new harvest.
Writing, the best way to grow personally
2 Enjoy the process of fighting with yourself
The initial stage of writing was extremely painful, and I was very glass-hearted. Once I encountered difficulties in my work, I wanted to escape because I was afraid that I could not do well. I was very anxious if I didn’t take care of my baby. This kind of mentality made me want to give up when I started writing.
It's not that things are too hard and you don't want to do them, but that things get harder if you don't want to do them. I forced myself to sit in front of the computer and start writing, and I listened to the class repeatedly when I encountered a problem. Many of the problems encountered in writing were covered by the teacher in the course.
When determining the theme, constantly think about what you want to express, cut out the key words, find the material and golden sentences around the key words, and revise the outline repeatedly, and start writing after you are fully prepared. The more you practice, the more you listen to the class, the easier it is to write.
Writer Qiqi said:
"A person really can't easily compromise or make a compromise. Once you decide to compromise, you will soon collapse. What you care about will be lost in the same way. You think it is a compromise once, and it will come back, but it is actually a compromise. A lifetime, a lifetime."
Although my writing is not good enough and immature now, I am willing to accept myself at this stage and enjoy the process of fighting with myself. I can also deeply feel the changes in myself since the beginning of the class.
Writing, the best way to grow personally
3 Today is a little better than yesterday
I have been practicing yoga for more than a year, and I was barely able to stick to one class when I was in class. There are many celebrities in the class who practiced very well. I compared with them every day and found that I was too far behind, and I couldn’t do it well. I suspect that I am not suitable for yoga. Later, I stopped comparing with those big coffees, I compared with myself, I can only hold 2 breaths for this movement, so tomorrow I will let myself hold 3 breaths.
After doing this for a year, I can easily stick to a class.
Similarly, there are many excellent friends in the writing camp. Every day, people post their own manuscripts. I motivate myself with excellent students, and carefully revise and summarize according to the teacher's comments, striving for each article to be better than the previous one. it is good.
From the beginning of one article a week to two days, only by writing constantly, I can pay attention to my own changes. I am not afraid of being slow, but I am afraid to stop, insist on writing, and keep practicing to improve the speed.
Writing, the best way to grow personally
There is a classic line in "The First Half of My Life":
"You have to walk the road step by step, you have to stammer, cramps and skins can be reborn, and there is no shortcut."
The road of writing is destined to be uneven and full of thorns. Only when we go down can we see hope, and we can meet a better future by persevering in the past.
