The quality of the wine is good, and you should not show these three types of low emotional intelligence when you attend company dinners and class reunions.
When attending a class reunion, there are actually many young people who always do some inappropriate things, so it is easy to tell jokes at the wine table, disturbing the atmosphere of the dinner or party, and many classmates They have worked in the society for many years, and they don't know the rules of parties or dinner parties at all, so they will arouse dissatisfaction from others and cause the scene to be very embarrassing.
Not long ago, in the forum, the author saw such a case. When attending a class reunion, a female graduate student, Ms. Li, even brought her boyfriend to participate. In fact, many classmates still feel very disgusted, because when everyone gathers, if there are outsiders In the presence, it is actually difficult to talk about some topics. Everyone needs to take care of the thoughts and opinions of Ms. Li and her boyfriend when they talk together.
After the party, the monitor took the initiative to find Ms. Li and asked Ms. Li to share two copies of the money and an additional 300 yuan, but Ms. Li felt that only one share of the money was enough. After all, the monitor and the organizer did not have any Statement that you cannot bring your boyfriend or friends to participate. So in the end, no matter how to negotiate, Ms. Li only took one part of the money, which also caused the dissatisfaction of the classmates in the class.
The author also recommends that everyone, in fact, whether you are attending a company dinner or a friend gathering, do not have these three types of inappropriate behavior, because wine is a character, if your behavior is not very appropriate, then it will definitely leave others bad. image.
First, drinking and talking nonsense
When attending a dinner party, no matter if you are hospitable or like to drink, in fact, you should try to restrain your behavior during the dinner party, because if you always rob you of your performance, or forcefully drink alcohol or say a lot of useless words , it will only make everyone feel that there is something wrong with your literacy and character. After all, you haven't seen each other for so long, and you should not affect other people's meals because of your way of speaking and drinking.
Second, a series of lies
Young people who lie a lot, in fact, when they participate in the dinner party, they also drink to add fun and liven up the atmosphere, but it greatly destroys the harmonious relationship at the wine table, because everyone at the dinner party In order to have a stronger sense of presence, so Lots of lies and excuses.
However, once you are exposed by others, your popularity at the dinner party will become worse and worse, and at the next party, everyone will not invite you again, because you don't make promises at all, and you don't keep integrity. Makes others feel uncomfortable.
Third, do not follow the rules
Young people who are unwilling to abide by the rules, in fact, when attending a class reunion, it is easy to leave a rude image to others, because everyone follows the rules and will not bring family members or friends to a dinner party, but Ms. Li's behavior is indeed It is also likely to cause dissatisfaction with the monitor or.
Everyone hopes to use this class reunion to have a better relationship with each other, but it is because of you that there are many conflicts with each other. In fact, after the reunion, everyone will feel that you disrespect this event.